I'm pretty much in the same boat, as my mom will never understand this. <br /><br />Knowing that my job is probably ending soon, she envisions me coming 'home' and going back to school (I already have a biology degree) so that I can get a 'normal' job, work from 9 to 5, and saddle myself with monthly rent (or even better, a mortgage) and all the other 'normal' things my siblings love so much. <br /><br />Ummmm...no. I spent nearly 2 decades of my life trying to do what was 'expected', turning my back on the one thing that really made me happy- the 'gypsy' life of working the Ren Faires. Result? I wound up married to a man that I grew to hate, working a 'normal' job and living a life that I hated even more. Now, at age 43, I finally have the opportunity to do something that makes ME happy, and I intend to make the most of it.<br /><br />Don't get me wrong, I love my parents. But this is MY life.