GotSmart said:
What defines a rat race?
Is it someone who only wants to hoard cheese?
I have worked many jobs, and at one time around 100 hours a week.
The question in my mind is this.
How can someone take care of their family in a decent way without getting trapped? By decent I mean housing, food, and medical (and other basic needs) while helping society not destroy itself.
For most people I think the answer is probably to find a job that you enjoy, in an area of the country where that job will afford you the lifestyle you desire.
While a select few are capable of starting and running their own businesses, it isn't really for most people because they don't possess the dedication & determination needed to succeed on their own, or they simply aren't good enough at managing their time. Being the boss or the owner frequently means putting in more hours than anybody else, and for less pay, for a pretty long time. Most people simply can't survive the time needed to make a new business successful enough to reap the rewards.
That being said, I think if you can start your own business while keeping your day job, your chances are greatly improved because you have bought the time needed to make your new business a success.
I worked my entire life at jobs I loved. Not big money by most people's standards, but since my expenses were so low, it was big money for me. It was plenty to support a house and a family though, even though those were not my choices.
I'm not a mountain climber, nor a cave dweller, or desert dweller. I'm not a hermit, and prefer to be around others. Even though at pushing 70 I am officially retired, I still volunteer my time and work 8-12 hours almost every day, because it gives me a sense of purpose and I'm still doing work that I love.
I've never really understood people who choose to be dropouts, but I guess there are quitters in all aspects of life. For me, I will continue to contribute as long as I am able, and if I can improve the lives of others, then that will be my legacy and I will be both pleased and proud to have done what I could to leave the world a little better place for those who follow after I am gone.