I guarantee you that whatever system we come up with, /somebody/ will rip it off. The only realistic goal is to minimize that as much as possible (and to make sure that the most vulnerable are protected as much as possible). That's all you can hope for.
We all have war stories. We've all been disappointed. We've all seen outrageous things. For every war story supporting a conservative view, there's a war story supporting a progressive view. \_(**)_/ people (some people) suck, that's never going away.
I was a nontraditional (ie, old) student with a reading disability and no $$$, and I sweated bullets to get through school. I remember agreeing to tutor, for free, a fellow classmate who was having difficulty. "I'll bring lunch," she said. She was much wealthier than me and I spent a couple days anticipating a nice treat to relieve my humdrum diet. She brought baloney sandwiches. ("Yeah," I thought to myself, "that's how rich people stay rich.") I remember being told by a counselor that I was "sabotaging myself", IOW that I had psych problems because I hadn't been able to find a cheap apartment in one of the most expensive cities in America. I remember working exhausting jobs to claw out enough hours to study part time. I remember watching a fellow graduate student laugh about how he was spending his scholarship money on a car (I assume/hope it was a non-needs-based grant), and other graduate students talk about "marrying a language" (your foreign wife does all your translations for you for free). And I remember being labeled an oppressor because of my skin color, by classmates of a different skin color who'd never known a day of want in their lives.
Then I got out in the work world, and worked my forking tail off for decades. I lost my last staff job because I wasn't quick enough to shut up about an unethical practice. Freelancing is twice as much work for less money and endless anxiety, but at least you're free. People in my field earn anywhere from McDonalds wages to swanky consultant fees. I got about a third to half way up that ladder. You do all the hard work, and all the scary risk taking, and then you're still at the mercy of luck. So yes I've spent a career listening to oblivious privileged idiots lecture the rest of us about how hard and smart they've worked, because they have the luxury of ignorance about where hard work /really/ leaves off and luck /really/ begins.
I have never done anything but work my tail off. I worked hard, I worked smart, I did every goddamn thing in the manual and a few things outside it. And now I am living on a pension that is apparently well below the Social Security median /or/ mean, scrambling for enough paycheck gigs to pay for medical bills and a few occasional treats.
Do I use my negative experiences to bash one segment of society or another? No, and neither do I respect it much when other people do, because all you have to do is look around to see that there's plenty of that on every side. You make your own personal choices on how to deal with it and you carry on. There's no Great Junior High School Homeroom Teacher in the Sky to make the asshats stop being asshats.
But I will say that people who think they got to where they are by merit alone are living in a fool's dream. NOBODY gets through this without VAST amounts of help from other people. A FEW people get by without personal effort (though whether you'd really enjoy living their life is another question); that's the price of living in an organized society. And if you ever think you're justified at resenting that, just think about all the military members who died or were maimed to give you the freedom and prosperity you enjoy right now, and were kicked to the ditch if/when they got home. If they can deal with what's been done to them in our name, then we can deal with life not being totally fair to us every minute, too.
This got long. To anyone who read it, thanks for listening.