I don't uderstand how this became such an issue.
My girlfriend literally has $600 a month to live on. She can NOT just go to a A RV park and pay $300-$400 because she can't figure out how to stay warm. If she does, she will have to stop eating because she has fixed expenses that she can't skip. So to just say to her forget trying to stay warm, just go to an RV park is not an acceptable answer, it belittles her.
"What do you mean you can't afford to stay at an RV Park? What's the matter with you?!" Is what I hear in your attitude.
I'm afraid that too often our members forget who this forum is meant for. I've said many times that this forum exists for one audience: those in need. Everyone else is welcome and I'm glad you're here. But one thing I always bear in mind is my core audience.
The reason the website, forum and blog exist is because one cold Alaska fall morning I woke up in my box van to a car parked beside me. I could just barely make out through the frost that it was a woman and her children who were living in their car. My heart broke for her and I told myself that I would do everything in my power to hep her and anyone else who needed to hear the good news of vandwelling. With all my heart and energy I've tried to be faithful to that promise.
Since the economy crashed in 2008 I've gotten literally 1000s of emails from people who were in desperate straights. They lost they jobs, their homes and now their apartments. The unemployment ran out, and now they have to move into their car, can I help them? I do what I can,. Sometimes their just looking for hope, for an encouraging word.
So NO, telling someone here to just move into an RV Park is not an acceptable answer. It's entirely reasonabe to suggest that if they can afford it maybe it would be a good idea. Or to offer to help them find a cheap one near them. But to say:
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What's the matter with you people, why are you telling her such stupid things? Obviously the only solution is to move into an RV Park!"
While some of you folks are trying to figure out what to do with all your retirement savings, on a regular basis I'm helping people figure out where there next meal is coming from.
You're very welcome to be here, and to talk about retirement savings. But only as long as you always bear in mind the true audience for this forum.
Maybe I'm over-reacting and being over-protective. It wouldn't be the first time!! I hope you can forgive me and overlook it. It just comes with the territory! :heart:
Bob