myway_1 said:
None of you answered my specific questions in any detail. (stranded alone way down a dirt road, or needing to replace a vehicle). I don't know if that's because those worst case scenarios almost never happen or because no one wants to talk about those disasters.
We are taking the approach of "An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure" approach.
I was getting firewood in a pickup. I was on my second load, so it was getting late. As I was driving out, I got a flat tire. (My tires were kind of crummy.) I was fairly tired after 10 hours of driving and getting firewood, but no biggie. Put the spare on, drove a quarter of a mile and got another flat. Ok, it started sucking now because it was dark. Crescent moon type of dark. No flashlight, which was amazingly stupid, but oh, well. I was about 7 miles away from the nearest house and about 3 miles down the mountain as the crow flies. Going straight downhill would've been much faster, but I couldn't see and didn't want a branch stabbing my tender self, so I chose the road.
I could barely see the road it was so dark. After a bit I heard branches breaking near me. Something was following. I didn't have a dog at the time, so I was truly alone. Instead of freaking out, I just walked confidently. I wasn't some weak child, I was a grown person and walked as such. Eventually, whatever was curious about me left. Wasn't scared at all. Wish I had a flashlight! I was affected more by my intense curiosity than any sense of fear or confusion. Eventually, made it into town, called my folks, got a ride home, and promptly went to bed!
I knew where I was, what my limitations were, and knew I still had options. Instead of being upset at my poor choices of being ill-prepared and how the world was being unfair, I simply took care of business. What should you do in a situation where you are stuck in the middle of nowhere or need a new vehicle? There are way too many variables to give you a specific answer. You just do what needs to be done.
What I can tell you is two things that have helped me: 1) Be prepared. Have whatever tools you think may help you. Communication is hugely important no matter what skills you have, so that should be higher on your list. Have warm clothes, perhaps a compass, etc. 2) Have a good attitude. During my walk, whatever was following was unlikely to be serious threat, so I didn't get all freaked out about it. I didn't watch TV a lot and didn't develop an unnatural fear of wild animals. I literally grew up around them and knew how they generally behaved. I didn't get upset at having two flat tires. The only negative thing that happened to me was I was tired for staying up late. Could've been much worse. I could've gotten upset or more frustrated to the point of anger. I could've let myself be consumed by fear. I lived and have a cool story to tell except for the ignorant not-being-prepared parts. lol. Later that week, I bought new tires and a flashlight. While I like to tell a cool story, I prefer to avoid situations that create those cool stories.
While breaking down in the middle of nowhere can be a bummer, it seldom happens. When it does, it usually isn't a big deal unless you do something dumb like going camping with a Winter Storm Warning coming in the next 24 hours without any way of staying warm and without notifying anyone where you are staying.
Being without a vehicle can be a hardship. The best thing to do is save money for the next one so when it comes time to replace it, you can. If you can't or don't save money, then get a loan if you can. If you can't get a loan, then do the best you can like ask questions on a reputable forum. It really is as simple as that. Take it one day at a time and sometimes one minute at a time. No matter what happens, you still have the ability to have a good attitude and to make better choices next time.