Luisafernandes
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One Awesome Inch said:Its a nice thought but it aint going to work. She told me last year she doesnt love me anymore. We were very close to splitting up but decided it would be better for the kids to stay together. She is a good person and she hasn't indicated she would do any of those things. She keeps me around to pay the bills and help with the kids. Someday soon we are going to have to have the "talk" and when that comes I am 95% sure that will translate to I'm moving out. We have tried marriage counselling before and it didnt work. She didnt want to go because the counsellor wanted to see her separately and she told me that she was just told all the things that are wrong with her. Frankly, we are beyond counselling. There is no romantic love there at all. She can be very demanding and high maintenance... and often grumpy. Before when we used to actually talk, everything remotely controversial would either turn into an argument or a lecture session. So I just started not talking as I hate arguing. Now I'm just done with all of it. Just trying to get the van finished and save up more money before the split. I still think she is a wonderful person and an excellent mother. We are just not compatible. I hope to make the split friendly so that we can still hang out with the kids at birthdays and holidays. The longer I stay the less likely that may happen. Don't know for sure though.
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Very sorry...
...still, you never know, strange things can happen.
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