gcal said:Exactly. Why does who and what we are make us not feel good?
TMG51 said:I'm just still trying to figure out the correlation between being hairy, not wearing deodorant and saving the rain forest. The first two don't seem to affect the third but they always go together.
cherterr said:Perhaps it has to do with the INGREDIENT list on all those chemicals most non 'tree huggers' use on their bodies?? Read a few and you may see the 'connection' ; Shampoo, deodorant, soap, cream rinse, even toothpaste.
When one get free of the chemicals, the next obvious step is perhaps to become more free of other impositions of society to do with personal care. (Notice I did not say 'hygiene' because it is completely possible to be Very Hygenic without using all the crud made my 'the man'!
So you are THEN aware and more caring about nature. Wa La! A hairy, 'tree hugger' is born!
TMG51 said:Hmmm nope, I still shave. Good to know that iPads are all natural though, I've never seen a hairy legged tree hugging college girl without one. People will keep doing what makes them feel good! I take issue only with pretense of higher moral ground.
gcal said:I don't know about a moral high ground, but I know that there seems to be a deep dissatisfaction in most women with how they look, even if the features they hate look good to everyone else. Back in the day, I had rich, full, healthy, beautiful waist long hair. But I was a brunnette, and blond was the thing to be. I ruined my my hair and turned it into straw trying to be something I was not. I never was able to grow that lush hair back. I worked with young black woman before I retired who had a short, perky haircut that looked quite attractive on her. But she wanted European hair, and got a weave. Think about wearing a thick, hot hat on your head for 2 months without ever taking it off, day or night, sweating in Florida heat and humidity. She looked unnatural and she actually started to stink. She hated her own body so much that she was willing to stink in order to look like someone else. I think both of us accepting beauty ideals from outside of ourselves that made us hate our natural selves were just sad and pathetic.
ggwoman said:But I do feel good. I hope you feel good. Everyone just needs to do what feels good for them. Because I don't care what you or they do. You do it for you, no one else. I do it for me. No one else. I don't care what others think especially about something so minor as looks or presentation. I only care that what I think is good for me and not harming others. This is healthy. It's called independent thinking and being able to accept others for who and what they are. Good social skills for such a big, wild, wonderful, and crazy mixed up world. Glad to be alive in interesting times.
wagoneer said:We all do have a natural odor and saying that not all are offensive. My PERSONAL OPINION is anatomy differences differentiate our perception of odor.
WanderLoveJosh said:Women don't shave because they're "suppose" too. They shave because some guy found he could make more profit from razors and such by convincing women it's "gross".
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