Okay I was trying to stay out of this conversation because your situation is going to require some very difficult decisions with a lot of risk. From your questions you don’t seem to be very mechanically skilled which makes buying a used vehicle risky. Newer vehicles it will become evident quickly that are capable of towing a large heavy trailer are probably out of your price range. Naturally the first impulse is to do more with less which has proven in most cases to be disastrous in this lifestyle or at best cause the individuals to compromise more than they want. You need at least a 3/4 ton truck and would probably be better off with a 1 ton if you plan to pull an older 30’ trailer with everything you own inside. If only moving seasonally you can contract or rent a tow vehicle easier and cheaper. You are living off an income source that you get because you cannot work I am assuming so $1,800 has to cover all your expenses. If you are able to afford to buy one of the properties from the other family members in my opinion you will be possibly better off as you can possibly trade rent for work/repairs and park a trailer on a fixed pad with full hookups and not need a tow vehicle while you learn to simplify and live cheaply through barter and trade. Most RVs are not built well enough to stay dry for years without a lot of roof and sealing maintenance. Building out a cargo trailer is probably a better option for you as you have special needs such as a ramp, most cargo trailers already have a rear ramp door for example. Once you have a good trailer you can start to deal with getting a capable tow vehicle if you decide your health and finances are to a point you can travel. You can have a classic Chevy heavy duty gasoline 3/4 ton truck completely mechanically rebuilt/restored for less than $30,000 that will get around 10 mpg. Finding good used newer diesel is difficult because most are sold new to owners that plan to keep them till they are completely worn out. You most likely won’t be able to afford to replace expensive emissions components and computer controls as they wear out or malfunction. An older big block 3/4 ton Suburban has lots of room inside for larger people and is hard to beat for towing and comfort in my opinion.
Appreciate It Bullfrog,
Essentially my wife will likely have 2 homes being sold from her dad's inheritance in Indiana
To maybe add on to her 63k by end of summer
She says she's willing to pay 45k cash for a truck now
And also concerned it wouldn't leave us with much cushion though likely the two estates will be sold
In meantime she needs to stay in phx area for doctor appointments
I need to be in a little cooler air in a vehicle
I'm renting a uhaul cargo van for a week until my California title cms
Options thinking to buy
1)New truck first in the 40-49k rang.Looking at 2021 f150 for 45k on weds
2)Used truck from auction,private owner,dealer in the 25k range or cheaper to save money would be my idea.Under 100k miles.Good carfax and mechanic looks at it first
3)Buy 30ft rv first and park it somewhere
Open to other suggestions
Problem with option 3
Got in wreck with my crv a couple weeks ago
Hit by a driver and geico took my car to collision and declared it total loss.
My wife cannot tolerate the Ac in my jacked CRV.
Geico offered me 8,700 payment if I gave it to a 3rd party ccoparts or something like that
I told my wife I need a backup vehicle to have as a personal space for me[although she would like money to go towards a truck
i can't put all of what I would get from geico into a truck as I had the vehicle prior to meeting her and need a backup vehicle for myself as it's a different energy having a family truck and one for oneself
I like that she helped me out with 3k in repairs and could set this aside for her in case of repairs/down-payment.
We would like to visit her family out east in in indiana and possibly Ga,Fl but it's too cold to park an RV in indiana[if it's legal]
Except for 1 of the siblings,my wife,sister want the estate sold,stepmother on the fence I think
Whether repairing a used vehicle or building out a cargo,we would likely have to hire someone to do it with our cognitive problems
Appreciate it bullfrog