enginewitty said:
Have any of you ever been in this situation?
if so, what did you do to get back on level ground?
if not, what non-financial strategies are you using to keep yourself safe and out ahead off this?
I was unable to set up things well enough in advance before jumpig into this lifestyle and my van needs a lot of immediate lovin
do I roadtrip anyway?
Hi Andy,
1. Yes I have been in this situation when everything fell apart at once - divorce, job loss, loss of home.
2. I enrolled in college using education and work grants and applied for basic assistance as you have (food stamps) to see me through for a couple months until the paychecks rolled in. I worked three part time jobs, gave dance lessons on weekends and studied my ass off so I could apply for scholarships. I slept in a van at the beach, showered at the school, studied at the library and at an all night coffee shop.
3. I live(d) very frugally and save(d) money, even if it's only a few dollars kept in a jar, it is something that grows over time and gives you a cushion.
4, I worked on my vehicles whenever possible becasue I didn't have $ to pay someone else.
One piece of advice and not, I repeat NOT to sound harsh or anything, but I've never used an illness or personal mishap as a weapon against myself or an excuse to not do what needs to be done to improve a situation. When push comes to shove you WILL find a way through anything if you are serious about wanting to. Just learn to hold your horses a bit and be methodical in problem solving ie don't put yourself in a risky situation, because you already are.
I suggest you first of all start learning how to work on your van. Even I can do things like hoses, fuel filter, and wiper blades. These are quick and inexpensive if you do it yourself. I dropped and replaced the transmission in my van (bought a used one at a junkyard) learning by asking (no internet at the time). I think you could handle replacing the broken window mechanism. I did for my Geo. The window wiper motor is not hard either. I did that as well in the Geo when the blades froze in ice on the windshield when I used water to make the snow go away and broke it. :blush:
Just stand up, find a job(s) and start fixing stuff. Yes it is frightening, yes it takes time, but it is also empowering and exhilarating and you will find you get more energy from little successes over time. Also make sure, and this is most important, that you are eating well ie lots of nourishing fruits and veg, juices, no processed foods at all and you will find your chronic fatigue fading away. I think it is associated with depression, at least the two seem to go together many times.
To me that serpentine belt is really important as it can mess up a lot of other things if it breaks.
I wish you only the the best of success in pursuing your dreams. You can do it.