Single females in SE Texas?

James AKA Lynx · Jul 2, 2013

Any single females in SE Texas?

Zil · Jul 2, 2013

go out on padre island park.

James AKA Lynx · Jul 2, 2013

The problem with almost all of the single women is that they cannot or do not want to travel for a year in a van. Getting a woman for the night is not much of a problem. Finding one that wants to go traveling for a year or 2 off the grid and can afford to take off is a problem!

caseyc · Jul 2, 2013

Why don't you try an ad in Craigslist? Let us know how it goes.

user 423 · Jul 2, 2013

I do not smoke or use drugs. I rarely drink. Narrows down the field a bit.

AA meetings. They're everywhere. I understand all are non-smoking these days. Never know who you might run into.

James AKA Lynx · Jul 2, 2013

We shall see what turns up. I have over a year to find somebody and get trained (or not) James AKA Lynx

Stargazer · Jul 2, 2013

James,

There are many of us out here, mostly keeping a low profile

Seriously, if you are sincerely seeking "Susan", consider posting what you want. It sounds like you just want someone to keep you company for a year while you travel, then what??? Would you be willing to travel where the lady wants to go? Does she need to have her own van? Will you share expenses? Desert, mountains, beaches? Mexico? Canada? Passport needed? Dogs/cats/pets ok? Hiking or sitting around the camp just relaxing? Spiritual?

Best wishes and good luck!

James AKA Lynx · Jul 2, 2013

Thanks for letting me know. I am looking for a female to share the lifestyle of traveling/RVÃ¢Â€Â™ing/VanÃ¢Â€Â™ing for a few years with me. This could turn into a permanent relationship, who knows. I do not want to drive in separate vans/RVÃ¢Â€Â™s. The cost would be just too much.  We can use yours or mine. Sharing normal operating expensive would be great but unnecessary. Food is not that much. I would not expect repairs to be shared. Any expensive that you want like RV parks, movies or fancy dinners would have to be agreed upon. I would not do this often. I have a certain amount of money and when that is gone I have to go back to work. My plans are to run out of money, then work for a few months and  take some more time off to travel and work Ã¢Â€Â¦.. until I can get SS in about 6 years. I want to spend as little as possible staying in Free areas for a week or more at a time.  I want to see it all (as long as it can be done cheaply). I do not like crowds or RV parks. I have a passport. Canada is OK but Mexico is getting scary and I do not speak Spanish. I do better with cats than dogs. Do not like being licked in the face. My woman would not have to be at my side all the time. At camp almost every night is expected. I spend most of my days 30% hiking and 70% at camp. You can hike or not. I have spent way too much time by myself. I will respect your Spirituality and I expect the same. No bad remarks or behaviors either way.  I am 6Ã¢Â€Â™4Ã¢Â€Â divorced male, 55 but look younger. In good health but needing to lose 40 pounds. I do not smoke, I do not do drugs. I rarely drink. I want the same. I have a clean record and want to keep it that way. I have spent 2 years on my boat alone.  See my photo thread Ã¢Â€ÂœMade it to the BahamasÃ¢Â€Â <a rel="nofollow" href="http://sailfar.net/forum/index.php?topic=1063.0" target="_blank">http://sailfar.net/forum/index.php?topic=1063.0</a>I am mild tempered and easy going almost all the time. I am living close to Houston Tx right now.If this looks like almost or near match for you, email me.James AKA Lynx<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:WordDocument> <w:View>Normal</w:View> <w:Zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:TrackMoves/> <w:TrackFormatting/> <w

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Stargazer · Jul 2, 2013

James,

Wow! Now that's more like it!

offroad · Jul 3, 2013

Finding a partner is a full time job.  You need to make it happen. 1) Go to churches, and alternative spirituality groups. 2) Find social groups 3) sign up for all the major dating sites, and some obscure minor ones 4) find the hobbies that have equal numbers of females and do them 5)  Some sports teams are co-ed (volleybal).  do them. 6)  Put up personal advertisement on craigs lists in multiple areas, and at the magazines that migght have that section. 7)  most important  *** LEARN HOW TO BE SINGLE  ***  many cant live alone and get freaked by that .  But there are good books about the life of being single and loving it.  You will still be social, but you might not have to have someone with you. 8)  Be a happy go lucky person.  no one wants a despirate person.

James AKA Lynx · Jul 3, 2013

Thanks, will try. I have been single for a long time. gotten used to it way to much. Sports - I am the big guy. to easy to hurt people not my size. Signing up for dating sites, I did on this one. James AKA Lynx

Zil · Jul 3, 2013

Not to hijack, sorry. Hey terry, what did you think of Flower Bluff for finding friends.

caseyc · Jul 3, 2013

For me personally, I had pretty much given up on finding the *one* single person that will be my soulmate forever and a day. When I was young and stupid <img class="emoticon bbc_img" src="/images/boards/smilies/biggrin.gif"> I used to believe there was that 1 magical person on this planet, and my mission in life was to find that one person who can make me happy.  Well, after 3 marriages and divorces later, and many, many, many girlfriends later over the years, I can pretty much say that I no longer believe there is only 1 person on this planet that can make me happy.  I have no problem meeting women my entire adult life, I meet lots of women all the time because I'm outgoing and put myself out there, and I live in a city with lots of choices. My problem is that I make p!ss poor decisions for my selection process, and I've noticed I tend to fall for the damsel-in-distress types.  My bad. Stupid, really.  So the bottom line for me is that women come, women go in my life. I'm grateful for all the women in my past. I will be grateful for all the women who I've yet to meet in the future <img class="emoticon bbc_img" src="/images/boards/smilies/wink.gif">.  I agree with everyone else's input that you need put yourself out there and try different venues. No one single venue will provide the results desired.  In addition to internet searches, one must also be physically out there in the midst of people.  There's nothing like face to face interaction at a group event so people can have an immediate interaction with you.  It's too easy to hide behind a computer screen and sending out a greeting that nobody will notice.

Ziggy Moon · Jul 3, 2013

I really hope you find her, James. Unfortunately, I've found that it is just simpler for me to remain single, I hate it that my unwillingness to conform to being rooted and normal has inevitably ruined my previous relationships. But I guess I' never give up the hope of one day finding my ideal Christian oriented, eclectic, down to earth, thrifty, wandering hippie chic. <img src="/images/boards/smilies/biggrin.gif" class="emoticon bbc_img"> Good Luck, James! .

James AKA Lynx · Jul 3, 2013

IF I have an extra, I will send one your way. James AKA Lynx

dragonflyinthesky · Jul 3, 2013

IF I have an extra, I will send one your way. I love this thread. It makes me smile.

Terry · Jul 3, 2013

I have one way that you might find odd. BUT it can also be a way to make money while traveling around. Temporary tattoos! You can make some money because it is a vrey cheap deal to get into. Once you have the "setup', you can do a volunteer thing at most bars on ladies night. FREE TATS ON LADIES NIGHT! Most bar owners/managers would love a free draw to get customers in the door and keep them happy. Maybe put up a "tip" jar to keep from loosing money on the deal.

user 423 · Jul 3, 2013

Dang. I always thought owning a boat was THE way to get chicks...

James AKA Lynx · Jul 3, 2013

When I had my boat I did have offers. But I did not allow certain types on my boat, Smokers, Drinkers or drug users. Also my boat was lively and they would need quick reactions not to get hurt. Just to picky. James AKA Lynx

Ziggy Moon · Jul 3, 2013

I Sold My Sail Boat - 'TODAY' .... Yay!!!

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