Just as Women attract Men with their looks & charm, Men may attract Women as John suggest....but not as much with a "cosmetics" appearance. Being too good looking can arouse their suspicion.
You may recall what a shopkeeper told Harry Potter in Diagon Alley ? "The Wand picks the Wizard". So if you are a Wizard who can find the "happy medium" you could catch the eye of a lot of women. If your skills of observation are good, you will notice them "putting themselves out there" for you to notice them and approach. Many women don't like men who just seem too easy or to approach them too quickly, so appearing to be walking around in your testosterone fog may pique their interest. Some girls will walk into you or come close to it just to see if she can get a conversation going with you......or to see if your head is bone clear thru.
A lot of women have a "distant" view of their surroundings. That is they are looking hundreds of feet away instead of the shorter view that so many men have. The long view gives them the advantage moving in or avoiding. Likewise many use a half smile which is their upper front teeth exposed so they appear approachable, but can quickly turn it to a full smile to signal.....approach me.
This is all part of body language.
If you are in new surroundings and you see a girl you would like to get to know it may be wise to use a system of three's. Make the first contact with a smile and very brief hello and them move on. Then a second approach more like crossing paths and linger a little longer. By the third encounter you may chat a bit longer as she may feel like she is familiar with you enough to chat some to see what you are all about.
Lastly, don't be too common at any one place. Lots of clubs, bars, bistro's etc have their "regulars" who loiter there.....like it's their territory. (they feel safe there and know other women there to work with within their circle of friends.
Some will sit near a window or door where they can check out the new arrivals
as they get out of their car/van/rv on the parking lot to be ready. (again the long view) Some of these regulars have signals they give each other....kinda like baseball players using signals. I think women would prefer hunting with a shotgun where men with a rifle as an example. Women attract a lot of guys attention like casting a net.....and the guys take aim on one at a time. Often the women who work in a small group will signal the others she wants first shot at this guy.
One music video that I've found that showcases this rather well is a video by The Fabulous Thunderbirds titled "Wrap it Up". Watch it closely a few times.
Wrap it Up
