Women Only - newly widow, confused, frustrated and alone

[BarbaraMeddings]

hello ladies, my name is Barbara, My late husband and i have a 1989 Winnebago chieftain 32' gas with a 454 Chevy engine.  I have a Chihuahua named Georgia and am looking for homes for 3 of her female puppies. So, i killed my husband on my 57th birthday(10/6/18) and am having to learn how to fend for my self. my husband was an elevator mechanic until he became disabled about 5yrs ago. we perched the rig used in FL.for about $9K, it was stored undercover and there was a stack of repair and machinate receipts, and the inside look great. Needless to say the work was payed for but not really done, So for the last 5yrs we have spent a lot of time and holidays at different repair shops across this wonderful country, finally found an outstanding shop in Thomasville GA fixed our engine problems and all we had left to do was the inside. my husband died suddenly and left me with a half fixed rig and no income, i have solar on top and deep cycle batteries but have NO IDEA of how to use it or check if it is even still hooked up, The rig is old and needs work which is what he was going to do, unfortunately he died before he did to much of anything, . I am alone, confused and a bit broken. I am trying to do it on my own any help would be appreciated

I hope that i can find someone that can help me understand and set up my solar unit. if there is anyone in the area that may be able to come by and lend me a hand/advice i will make you dinner and offer you a nice hot shower. 
Thanks in advance. the meandering widow

 

[brahmon]

"So, i killed my husband on my 57th birthday(10/6/18) "

please explain

 

[brahmon]

why was my post removed???? i simply asked why she killed her husband?

"So, i killed my husband on my 57th birthday(10/6/18) "

 

[BarbaraMeddings]

"So, i killed my husband on my 57th birthday(10/6/18) "

i made the decision to remove him from life support. Sorry warped senses of humor, my way of lighting the situation.

 

[Anne]

Sorry for your lost my Aunt also had to be removed from life support it is very heart wrenching. I'm new to this and can't give you any advice, but I wish you good luck and a prayer for resolution, ease and peace.

 

[maki2]

First thing to do is post this in an area of the forum where men are allowed to reply to your search for a helper. You have posted it in the women only area. While there are certainly some women who know how to do solar your potential to get a helper will greatly increase if you post where both sexes can respond. There are many kind, decent men of all ages who might be willing to pitch in and help you out.

 

[aeryn]

I have a good idea how you feel. I was also suddenly widowed in 2008. He had a massive aneurysm blow 3 days before his 59th birthday. We had to keep him on life support for 3 days so out of state family could get home. He came in and went out of this world on the same day. I wish I could tell you it gets easier but it hasn't for me. I'm so deeply sorry for your loss.
Sorry I know nothing about solar, will need to learn that too.