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wagoneer

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Let me explain my feelings. man or woman we are still man . sexual preference is simply that. top or bottom is a choice, heads or tails is a choice, vice or versa is a choice. Having carried my sex choice these last 60 years ( with some regrets) for the last 60 years I am resolved in the fact that you need to NOW
be at peace with your choice. some feel they have NO choice but you do, and move on from that, I mean move ahead proceed, advance and enjoy your time on earth.
 
:-/   I am now totally confused.......Your post reminded me of a dear friend who I met in the mid 1960s and who died in 2003,  She would constantly start a conversation in her head and then say something to us like we were in on it [conversation] from the beginning often she would say "are you going to answer me?"  also "well what do you think?" and my favorite was " DAMMIT are you going to answer me or not?"   :)

I'm not sure if you are offering encouragement to a transgendered person or outing yourself as one.  Which ever it is doesn't either bother or concern me.    I believe we are all as we are supposed to be.....sometimes things in our lives play a big part in our attitudes and sometimes they aren't relative.  Some times we are harmed as children and that can have a lifetime  affect on us.......some folk are better able to deal as adults with things from the past while others are not.    As individuals...... We just are.  I relish the differences in people.....I think life would be sooooo boring if we were all the same.   This is just me in my world and what works for me.  
               No one has to agree with me...I can live with that too..I even have a shirt that sez
                   " I LIVE IN MY OWN LITTLE WORLD....IT'S O.K. THEY KNOW ME HERE "   :p

                          JEWELLANN aka  TEXAS JBIRD
 
I'm with Jewellann, was hard for me to follow where you were going with that. I don't know what choice you made and carried the last 60 years but you did say you had some regrets. Everyone has regrets at one time or another and that's just part of life. I do hope the regrets didn't outweigh the positives though.
 
I have made the right choices for me just in my elder years through all the changes see how choosing and choices can confuse a person and empathize with people making those daring looks into the abyss of choices. Keeping myself open is challenging me to become a better human. You understand. Being true to yourself is a self gift.
 
if your not interested OK do not follow the thread
or start some other meaningful one
 
Every Road Leads Home said:
I'm with Jewellann,  was hard for me to follow where you were going with that.  I don't know what choice you made and carried the last 60 years but you did say you had some regrets. Everyone has regrets at one time or another and that's just part of life.  I do hope the regrets didn't outweigh  the positives though.

Ditto on the regrets ...we all have them {I think?}

Every Road I sent you a PM { I don't always check mine} just a heads up.

     Texas Jbird
 
wagoneer said:
if your not interested OK do not follow the thread
or start some other meaningful one

I am just confused here.   :huh:

So many of your posts seem like a snatch of a conversation heard when walking through a party.  

There is no reference to the background of the reasoning of the post. 

Not enough of a thread to follow.  

Perhaps it is just me~~~   :s
 
Tjaybird said:
Every Road I sent you a PM { I don't always check mine} just a heads up.

     Texas Jbird
Thanks for the heads up, I don't always notice them right away otherwise.  I sent a reply.

Matt
 
Rough patch the good ship U.S.S Wagoneer has steadied her keel. Just needed some more ballast.
 
wagoneer said:
Rough patch the good ship U.S.S Wagoneer has steadied her keel. Just needed some more ballast.

Is your blood sugar OK?
 
Like other said I'm a bit confused as to what you're actually saying
To me sex is sex, if you like it and it doesn't hurt anyone, do it
If it's not your cuppa, don;t do it
in other words, do what makes you happy / turns you on, so long as you can find a partner who likes it, too
Cause no harm, accept no harm, be youself
 
wagoneer said:
perhaps a self diagnosis would include attention deficit disorder.

Fun with medical problems.

My hearing is going, and I have fun with my kids asking me questions.  I have an idea what they asked, but repeat what it sounded like.   :D

When my blood sugar gets extremely high, or low, I tend to get loopy.  Then all bets are off.  :angel:
 
Listen, he didn't post in fixing you transmission or solar posts. He posted in discussion s that don't fit in other areas. Sometimes you just need to vent or try to express yourself. I'm glad Bob and mods have opened this forum to include other than topics of cheap RV living. I've used you all as a sounding board more than once and have been treated respectively. It may not matter to some of you so just pass the thread by and his statements and thoughts don't need questioned or critiqued.

Diane.
 
Wagoneer,
                    When I responded to your OP on this thread I really was confused......I truly did not understand what you were saying   :s 

 I was also concerned because there have been times that  in a 24hr period my blood sugars  can run from the 60s to over 300.  I then run the gauntlet that includes going to sleep sitting up with TV on and typing on my PC..... to becoming very adversarial with any one I cross paths with...to uncontrollable crying jags and confusion.  I have learned to be on constant guard about my situation.  This is also where Qeenie my dog comes into it as she senses the sugar high/lows often before I do and her actions cause me to put myself in check to see what the problem is. 

 Also I have a thread here about having to take B12 shots each week as there can be serious permanent side effects to severe  low B12 that includes brain shrinkage that can nor be reversed.

Hey maybe I was confused before I read your OP    :-/

I hope my postings  did not upset or hurt you in any way as that was not my intention. 

      I wish you well                Jewellann aka Texas Jbird
 
Several posts have been deleted.

If you can't be supportive, then don't comment at all

That doesn't mean you can't ask questions to try and be helpful. No one is asking for your opinion on the trans-gendered population and it's issues.
 
wagoneer said:
Let me explain my feelings. man or woman we are still man . sexual preference is simply that. top or bottom is a choice, heads or tails is a choice, vice or versa is a choice. Having carried my sex choice these last 60 years ( with some regrets) for the last 60 years I am resolved in the fact that you need to NOW
be at peace with your choice. some feel they have NO choice but you do, and move on from that, I mean move ahead proceed, advance and enjoy your time on earth.

I think that's a very healthy attitude!
 
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