Stuck said:
I can see that I opened up a can of worms. Lenny, you seem to be very good at presumption. I will leave it to you to pronounce judgement.
EDIT: It appears I have made myself unwelcome here. I will not bother you again.
I am very dismayed at the direction this thread went. Even when I first mentioned the potential issue with the handrail it was taken lightly. Having been a security guard as well as having run a security business and installed security and surveillance systems, I have seen people do some really bad things. My concern was genuine and I'm sure that to Stuck, his was as well.
You can't know how you would react in a situation until you've been in it. I may have done the same thing if someone started trying to yank my RV door open in the middle of the night. Being startled like that puts you into fight or flight mode. Your adrenaline spikes and you react sometimes more than you think. But the desire to protect yourself and your family is usually there.
You may disagree with how he reacted. But you weren't there. You didn't experience what he did. It's easy to judge him now after he realized what happened and that it wasn't a big deal. But at the time it was very real to him and his family and he could have just as easily shot them.
I remember there used to be a show on TV called, "Scare Tactics" where friends would have the show prank their friends. I remember one episode where a guy in a mask wielding an axe busted into the room and went after the "target". I remember thinking about how many "prankster" friends I have and how badly that would have ended with me. Because in that episode, if I were the target, the "actor" with the mask and axe would have been dead. I would have shot him before he got halfway across the room. And it was just a prank.
Perception is reality, people. You can't judge someone for fearing for their life and taking action that you may have taken yourself in the same situation. I'm not going to say any more on this subject. But we've made a veteran, former police officer, former college instructor, and retired mechanical engineer feel unwelcome and that is disheartening. I myself will be more careful about what I say in light of this.