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Gunny

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Many of you read of my excursion to buy my little trailer and the circus that it was. The key players in that Circus were Jimindwnver and Pat, without whom I would have been out a couple of thousand dollars I am sure. I have Good Sam, I can  get the rig towed at no cost but then the repairs and parts are ate dealer prices. I could have been done but with the help of Jim and Pat I saved a lot of money and made two good friends.

Good enough friends not to mention the difficulties I had getting up and down to do anything and when i managed to be upright I was tired. Or more exactly I had a loss of stamina. Sitting in my trailer and have Jim bring over a hot cup of coffee and a bowl of Pasole for breakfast is a habit I could get used to. I don't know about the rest of his cooking but that was outstanding.

In the real world, where I usually exist, I don't see myself getting down to drain tanks, fill water and the myriad of other things a person needs to do to independently survive. 
Depending on Jim or someone else to do the mundane things that need to be done is not me. 

I will tell a little about myself only known to Jim and maybe Pat; I am Pacemaker dependent,
when the pacemaker stops, so do I. permanently. In April I will enter the 5th year of battery life on my Pacemaker that has a 5 year life expectancy. I am told they can replace the unit (whole unit has to be replaced, not just batteries) but it will have to be under a local anesthetic as my body cannot withstand general anesthesia. There is a time during the exchange of units my heart is stopped and has to be cranked back up. Rob's not keen on this idea.

I bring this up because I plan on gifting the trailer to someone. It's a California one owner trailer with no rust and no leaks I could find. It had a slight propane type smell but I tracked that down and it's going to be taken care of. Refrigerator works great on electric but the thermocoupler  wasn't firing up  the propane pilot. Easy fix. Jim could not get the furnace pilot to light and I didn't get it checked out yet. Then there's the little 'whoopsie' dent from my adventure. That's going to be something the new owner get repaired but it looks easy to repair.

Final details have not been worked out but the plan is set in stone, tho I do reserve the right to visit and sleep on the small bunk on occasion. 


I think Jim and Pat would have gone to their graves without telling of my issues but they worked their asses off and were patient and kind at all times. Gentlemen, the both.


I will stay on the forum and my home is always open to any traveler and a standing offer of a meal is there too. 

Gunnery Sgt. Rob J.
 
I'd like to be rah-rah and tell you to suck it up and get out on the road, but, like you, I have some significant issues from having my body beat to hell, so I really to get where you're coming from.  The spirit is willing (and still feels young) but the flesh makes it abundantly clear that the spirit is an idiot.   ;)

Having a home base to stay as healthy and functional as we can is a decent option, but I still hope you can get out now and then and meet up with your new road buddies.
 
It's a path you aren't following solo.

While I haven't the pacemaker, I won't bore you with my list of aches pains and troubles. We all have them to greater or lesser degrees.

Hang in there, get "recharged" and forge on!

Dave
 
Gunny, I'm sorry that you're in such poor shape.  I guess we all get there, sooner or later, despite our preferences.

But, about the battery in the pacemaker.......... I have a friend whose mother had a pacemaker installed when she was 85.  She had the unit changed when she was 91, because they said it would only last about 5 yrs, and she figured it wasn't worth it, but she finally had it done, not expecting to come back from it.

Her daughter was allowed to be with her when she was waking up.  When her mom's eyes were finally focusing decently, she held her hand, leaned over and asked how she felt.

"Okay, I guess.  Have I missed The Young and the Restless?

Please don't give up before you really need to! We haven't met yet!
 
Take care of yourself Gunny, fight the good fight.
 
DAMN ROB! I was so hoping to hear about your new adventures to come?
Why can't they replace the pacemaker? Don't you have V.A. insurance to cover that?
 
Gunny said:
I will tell a little about myself only known to Jim and maybe Pat; I am Pacemaker dependent,
when the pacemaker stops, so do I. permanently. In April I will enter the 5th year of battery life on my Pacemaker that has a 5 year life expectancy. I am told they can replace the unit (whole unit has to be replaced, not just batteries) but it will have to be under a local anesthetic as my body cannot withstand general anesthesia. There is a time during the exchange of units my heart is stopped and has to be cranked back up. Rob's not keen on this idea.


I will stay on the forum and my home is always open to any traveler and a standing offer of a meal is there too. 

Gunnery Sgt. Rob J.

I will light a candle and think positive thoughts as well as say prayers for you, Gunny.


VanGrrl57
 
Ballenxj said:
DAMN ROB! I was so hoping to hear about your new adventures to come?
Why can't they replace the pacemaker? Don't you have V.A. insurance to cover that?

Yes, they can and will replace the unit, it's the leads (there are three) that are a concern. The main concern is that I have not tolerated going under general anesthesia. The last time they tried I went into respiratory arrest and spent a week or so on a ventilator. I'm not sure why, I have had so many surgeries over the years but the pulmonary doctor told me I would have to be "incubated" before any other surgery. That's why I haven't had my hip repaired.

Life has been an adventure, some bad but mostly good. This forum and the people on it are the good.

Rob
 
Queen said:
Having a home base to stay as healthy and functional as we can is a decent option, but I still hope you can get out now and then and meet up with your new road buddies.

I can only echo what Queen said. 

Now that your plans have shifted, I do hope you can get out of your current living arrange and the neighbors-from-Hell and find someplace better to live.
 
I'm sad and sorry to hear that you may opt out of having your pace maker replaced ?  My oldest [ for 35ys ] friend here in AL has very bad heart trouble and after several surgeries a pace maker is not an option.

Once or twice a month I tell him "Stay alive you're not done here yet! " Then a BIG Hug. 
My arms can't reach you in Texas for a friendly hug however my sentiments are the same even tho we've never met. 

 I bet there is more than one person on here who would gladly take/share or assist you on an outing/camping trip when you feel up to it.

Jewellann
 
When I saw the thread title, I thought "That would work for my singles ad."  

Gunny, you have been a breath of fresh air on here.  If I can think of a way to transport members about, you have the first bunk.  Perhaps I need to go out and buy that winning lottery ticket.  I am due for a win. 

I might take you up on that offer of a meal, (I buy the beer)  as there is no way I will visit my family when in Texas.  Meanwhile, remember you have made a lot of friends on here.
 
Gunny....you have all the physical problems.....but like I told you in another thread of yours you maybe sidelined but you have a vast amount of knowledge to give on this site.

As far as your heart goes.....I can't say about the pacemaker...YET.....however I commiserate since I am on an aspirin regime daily....Beta Blockers....and nitro.....have to be careful not to pass gas....or I might blow up.

But wherever you go and whatever you do rest assured....Sir....and I say that word with respect...as you know the meaning in the Corps....

That you do have heart....a Semper Fi Heart! and with that  my friend you will go a long..long way!

Semper Fidelis!
 
Gunny sounds like you could use a traveling partner. Last year while I was visiting Green Valley Arizona I saw several examples of hiring people as care takers and lots of people moving there as they could not find work and this area has lots of older retired folks that need help to do the things they like to do. There lots of folks just getting by and if all you need is a couple hours a week to set up and do tanks I'm sure there are several of us here that would be glad to help if for no other reason just to meet up and visit. Look at the number of people on this site that donate time and money because it makes them feel good to meet and help others. There may be a young person out there that wants to travel and see the sites for several months without the means. Don't give up on your dreams just alter your way of doing them, what have you got to lose, make it an adventure, you made it home right? Live, learn and try another way.
 
If I wasn't already taking care of my mom I'd volunteer for that mission without another thought!

That trailer is still a good home and there are some damn cheap RV parks where you can park in TX.
Once hooked up the little that needs done is easy to find volunteer help .
RVers are a good bunch , just like the tribe here.

(Maybe they can fit a solar panel on your head to boost that batt !!!!!)
 
I have an appt 24 March with my Pacemaker tech and the rep from Medtronics is always there. After they do their readings they have a conference and mostly exclude the vet. For the last few visits I have asked about battery life. Each time I was told "2.5 years". Someone, somewhere is lying.

I'll get hard answers this visit. I promise that.

Rob
 
Gunny said:
I have an appt 24 March with my Pacemaker tech and the rep from Medtronics is always there. 
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I'll get hard answers this visit. I promise that.

This is much more encouraging than your last postings.
Good Luck Rob, we will be waiting for the prognosis.
 
Hi Gunny,

As you know I can certainly empathize with some of the health issues. I creek and crack and live with more pain than most 36 year olds. I want to give full timing a try this summer but i've yet to determine if that's more wishful thinking or if I can actually do it physically. Most days now I surprise myself and get the things done that need doing. Heck I just picked up all my kitchen cabinets from lowes, loaded them in my truck myself, got them in my house myself and installed them all, myself. However, my body pays a hefty price when I decide I need to prove to myself I can still do these things! It will take me a week to recover. Even if I don't end up full timing, I plan on doing many multi week trips again like I used too.

Is keeping your trailer a possibility and then just do some few day trips around Texas when you're feeling up to it? Just getting away for a night or two in nature can be very therapeutic.

I hope you can go through getting the new pacemaker and add a few more chapters to your story. I don't think it's your time just yet. Soon as I hit the road, my first destination is Texas. I'd love to sit down and have a meal or two with you.

Matt
 
Txjaybird said:
I'm sad and sorry to hear that you may opt out of having your pace maker replaced ?  My oldest [ for 35ys ] friend here in AL has very bad heart trouble and after several surgeries a pace maker is not an option.

Once or twice a month I tell him "Stay alive you're not done here yet! " Then a BIG Hug. 
My arms can't reach you in Texas for a friendly hug however my sentiments are the same even tho we've never met. 

 I bet there is more than one person on here who would gladly take/share or assist you on an outing/camping trip when you feel up to it.

Jewellann



If I'm not lost or in jail, I could do that with you, G.


Pat
 
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