^^^^eoewan said:
(lenny, take note: HERE is a negative personal remark..see the difference?)
E, my 'way of being' is fine, thank you very much.
You took that all out of context...
Go back and read the other stuff. At 59 years of age, I will not be re-examining anything.
I'm a biker, truck driver, gun-toting, lifelong bachelor with a history of an active social and love life over the course of 40 years or so. Several long and happy relationships, and some shorter ones too, with women, and 4 live-together arrangements.
Most women who dress like sex-bait in casual or social environments should expect to draw some attention to themselves. (I did NOT say assaulted!) And I sometimes take the bait....or as I said, I USED to, when I was younger.
Many years ago, I dated a young, attractive woman that had a job as a part-time nanny. One time, walking alone, she was crossing the street, pushing the stroller, and some young males in a waiting car whistled and uttered a few remarks. She laughed and told me later she was flattered, but why would these guys be whistling at a 'mommy'?
I told her, well, she looked damn good, that's why. She was visibly pleased.
Its just like a man who dresses in a nice custom 3 piece suit or drives a flashy red Corvette. It's all about the 'bling' baby! Neither you, nor I, can change human evolution.
Come hang out with bikers sometime and listen and watch. You might learn something...its not like in the movies or TV...its real, and its raw.
And after all, I'm not asking YOU to change.
