SilentJim1980
Member
Soooo, here I am! My names Jim & mostly I don't talk much so a lot of people call me Silent Jim. I'm just a guy that is looking into van life. Honestly being a truck driver has always appealed to me, life on the road, seeing new places, etc., etc. but life circumstances sort of put a damper on that dream. Now I'm old-ish & have a lot of health problems & taking care of and living with an ailing mother, jobless & living on disability with her while we are renting a home.
In a nutshell, our problems started before Covid, my father was a disabled veteran & passed away in 2019. I was helping my mother take care of him beforehand as she was unable to. Basically, I was taking care of both of them, then before the year was out we were sort of forced to sell our house in another state & looked to move here to TN & were ready to begin anew with a grand adventure as we both had lived all our lives in the previous state & were looking to downsize & start fresh.
Well...we all know that life likes to throw a monkey wrench into plans & it did. 3 months after we moved here to TN my mother got gravely ill, required 5 serious surgeries, then Covid happens. My mother being how she is health-wise may not make it through the few more required surgeries she will need once hospitals relax their stance on surgeries due to Covid.
So, me being me I'm trying to plan ahead a little because in all likelihood I'll have little to no income outside of what I get via Disability, be unable to continue to rent, be jobless & only have a van for transportation & possibly live in. This recently was brought to mind after seeing the movie Nomadland, I'm sure it's driven a lot of others here (as well as the epidemic). I don't really want to be tied down anymore in one place. There are things I would like to see & do before I shuffle off, I don't really have any family (certainly none I would live with & would probably end up in prison if I tried. Dysfunctional doesn't even begin to apply to how they are).
So I've been watching a lot of Bob's video's & van life videos trying to soak up as much information as possible & joining the forums here in hopes that there are fellow TN people that participate in the van life that can point me in the right direction or offer insights.
As a side note due to my mother requiring a wheelchair & us needing reliable transportation when we were moving we purchased a used 2017 Chevy Express 3500 LT Extended Passenger Van & had the dealership remove all the rear seats. If it's to become my home in the near future I'll consider removing the interior trim & carpet (albeit I don't really want to for resale/trade-in ability if money truly becomes a dire situation.) Also due to her requiring a (manual) wheelchair & sometimes her electric one, plus hauling things & groceries I'm not able to do many modifications myself at the moment to the van.
Currently, I'm just gathering information, trying to figure out storage options, which to be honest has been a challenge since we bought the thing because there is no way to secure things & it sounds like a demolition derby in the back when things start sliding around.
So there's me, why I'm here, gory details & all.
In a nutshell, our problems started before Covid, my father was a disabled veteran & passed away in 2019. I was helping my mother take care of him beforehand as she was unable to. Basically, I was taking care of both of them, then before the year was out we were sort of forced to sell our house in another state & looked to move here to TN & were ready to begin anew with a grand adventure as we both had lived all our lives in the previous state & were looking to downsize & start fresh.
Well...we all know that life likes to throw a monkey wrench into plans & it did. 3 months after we moved here to TN my mother got gravely ill, required 5 serious surgeries, then Covid happens. My mother being how she is health-wise may not make it through the few more required surgeries she will need once hospitals relax their stance on surgeries due to Covid.
So, me being me I'm trying to plan ahead a little because in all likelihood I'll have little to no income outside of what I get via Disability, be unable to continue to rent, be jobless & only have a van for transportation & possibly live in. This recently was brought to mind after seeing the movie Nomadland, I'm sure it's driven a lot of others here (as well as the epidemic). I don't really want to be tied down anymore in one place. There are things I would like to see & do before I shuffle off, I don't really have any family (certainly none I would live with & would probably end up in prison if I tried. Dysfunctional doesn't even begin to apply to how they are).
So I've been watching a lot of Bob's video's & van life videos trying to soak up as much information as possible & joining the forums here in hopes that there are fellow TN people that participate in the van life that can point me in the right direction or offer insights.
As a side note due to my mother requiring a wheelchair & us needing reliable transportation when we were moving we purchased a used 2017 Chevy Express 3500 LT Extended Passenger Van & had the dealership remove all the rear seats. If it's to become my home in the near future I'll consider removing the interior trim & carpet (albeit I don't really want to for resale/trade-in ability if money truly becomes a dire situation.) Also due to her requiring a (manual) wheelchair & sometimes her electric one, plus hauling things & groceries I'm not able to do many modifications myself at the moment to the van.
Currently, I'm just gathering information, trying to figure out storage options, which to be honest has been a challenge since we bought the thing because there is no way to secure things & it sounds like a demolition derby in the back when things start sliding around.
So there's me, why I'm here, gory details & all.