RonDean
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I stopped reading all the posts in this thread some time ago. Especially the long ones that seem to be more about what people "should" have done but very many didn't or couldn't. History is always 20/20 and spending time on past mistakes, or in some cases - successes, seems like a waste of time to me. Now if this were a HS or college age forum for people young enough to put such advice into action, I might have a different perspective. But I think most of us are a bit past that age group.
If the discussion was more generally about government policies that impacts people now experiencing difficulties, then advice on what we should have done is still less than useful. As far as "playing the victim card," we are all victims or beneficiaries of those things beyond our control. It is true that everything else is our own responsibility to navigate within the rules and conditions in which we find ourselves. But still, after the fact advice is not only not helpful, but it also becomes irritating upon repetition.
If the discussion was more generally about government policies that impacts people now experiencing difficulties, then advice on what we should have done is still less than useful. As far as "playing the victim card," we are all victims or beneficiaries of those things beyond our control. It is true that everything else is our own responsibility to navigate within the rules and conditions in which we find ourselves. But still, after the fact advice is not only not helpful, but it also becomes irritating upon repetition.