That is disingenuous. You aren't stupid. You know that **** happens.
People have kids at a young age (right or wrong... doesn't matter). A big chunk of their meager income goes to child support. Worse, they receive no child support at all.
Some people can't rely on county nursing homes for the elderly parents so stay in the crappy town to care for them.
Some become addicts of one sort or another because they were abused as children and teens.
Some are born brain damaged, or with low intelligence.
NY and SF may have services for low income folks but the same can't be said for all cities and states.
Some aren't born white. Oh, yeah... you don't believe systemic racism and things like
redlining exist. They do.
Of course there are success stories. But please look at the facts. The statistics.
Also, you said I was playing the victim, yet I never referred to myself. You are assuming things.
When I said people want to breathe, that is true of everyone. I don't see myself as a victim and you shouldn't be making personal attacks in a debate/discussion. Okay, I referred to you as being on "the right". Maybe that is a personal attack... not the same, tho.