I don't know what's going on with this '''other party"' stuff, but the basics are don't be rude to other folks... it's okay to argue, but in a friendly manner without trashing each other. Try to keep politics out of it if possible, and if you have to, keep it civil and to a minimum. You can get in trouble really fast talking about politics, even if others are doing it. A lot of this seems silly, but I have run forums and still have a gaming forum; it's not fun; human nature, unchained, is a frightening thing to behold. Good luck.