I'm sorry King, but all your assumptions make me cringe. I've provided information for you - too much for me to summarize - to boil it down for you - in a post. Make the effort to learn things for yourself. You are trying to make rebuttals without even understanding the arguments.
Nor did I ever I ever say it's 'all going to hell'. Those are your words. Please don't put them in my mouth?
My last word: rather than trying to rely on assumptions about topics you dont understand, never studied, and never experienced, take the time to study and learn. Spend the last fifty or so years of your mortal existence actually learning something. Knowledge and experience might make your passing a bit easier for you to deal with. Don't waste your time waiting for technology to make life better for you. You'll miss out on so much. Start with economics and psychology - both will go a long way towards helping you figure people out, as well as givng you an understanding of the obstacles your fantasies face. No, I wont boil it down for you - there's too much material, you'll learn better doing the work yourself, and you're apparently not going to listen what others tell you, anyway.
Good luck to you.
Virtual war? You've been watching old Star Trek episodes? *grin*