Based on all of this, here is what *I* would do, if it was MY vehicle...and this is what I DID install in my van, back in 2016:
I would add a second lead acid starting battery under the hood. Similar to diesel pickups, adding a second battery, wired parallel with the existing starting battery, will give you extra piece of mind.
If there is not enough room for a second battery under the hood, you can buy or build an auxiliary frame-mount battery tray. I fabricated my own, but you can buy them online. I did this on my van when I needed extra capacity.
This would effectively double the time you can operate your desired loads on the ACC selection.
For even more piece of mind, you can use a parallel switch OR you can carry a lithium jump pack OR a simple set of jumper cables to connect your fully charged house battery to your stating batteries in the case of a depleted starting battery pair. OR any combination of these backup plans.
But seriously, if you have managed to run down TWO starting batteries playing with the TV, stereo, Onstar and wifi and such, you probably need to re-assess your power use patterns...and look into another, and more robust, internet solution and entertainment options, which are independent of the ACC selection.
Sooner or later, you WILL run down your starting battery and that will happen when you least expect it and really really really need the vehicle to start.
I recommend you do not tamper with the vehicle under-dash wiring harness, but adding a second battery is not difficult, with battery brackets and remote battery wiring kits available online.
tx2sturgis,
I really like all the info you added tx2sturgis but I need to clarify some things to make sure I am understanding correctly. You say "I would add a second lead acid starting battery", so I take that as meaning to NOT GO with a LiFePO4 Battery, correct?
So I would use a lead acid battery for the second battery and place in parallel with the starter battery. There would be no devices between the 2 batteries so both would simultaneously power what is on the ACC selection but giving me double the amount (or so) of time that the ACC could be used, right?
As for "a parallel switch" could you give me an example/link as to what one is and this is the only thing that would be placed between the starter and second battery?
Also there is not enough room under the hood so I would need some type of "auxiliary frame-mount battery tray" as you indicate, or is it possible to locate the second battery inside the van and build some type of case to mount it in?
"I recommend you do not tamper with the vehicle under-dash wiring harness" no worries on that one cause I sure don't have the kind of knowledge that would allow me to risk screwing something up in there.
Thank you for the help,
lone