Calaverasgrande
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Well there is a cultural difference between most Asian countries and the English speaking West.Spaceman Spiff said:Asian societies, particularly mega cities like Singapore, Hong Kong, Beijing, Tokyo, etc. give lie to that experiment being transferable to human behavior.
I think wanderlust is just part of growing up: the exercise of exploring our world to see where we fit in, to see if the grass is indeed greener somewhere else. Some of us never outgrow it, some of us put our wanderlust on hold for more important goals, some of us have found where we fit and settle there, some of us find that wandering isn't for us.
In Asia it is extremely common for multiple generations to live under the same roof. Including adult children.
In western countries, especially the Anglo-American ones, everyone is expected to be on their own by 18 if not off to college. Parents or grandparents moving in with their kids is seen as a burden or a failure. Adult children moving back in with their family is also seen as a capitulation. It's quite the trope, the creepy middle aged guy that still lives with his mom.
More simply we expect a lot more personal space and privacy, as well as self determination without family interference.
Most of the Hong Kongers I know in NY live with and support their extended families. And these are men and women in their 30's.
But then also I would also point out that not all "van life" people are youngsters.
Quite a lot of us are middle aged or retired.
(or retired in middle age)
Did quite a lot of traveling in my own youth. My family would get in the VW camper and travel up the east coast, to Colorado or Ohio to visit relatives. When I got older I was in a series of bands which toured. In my 50's I'm just returning to what I enjoyed most, sans family or band.
Have to say. Traveling the interstate isn't what it used to be. A lot of the local color is erased by Flying J type places and the ubiquitous cluster of Taco Bell/KFC, McDonalds and Subway.
If you are lucky you run across regional chains like Waffle House or Stuckeys.
Wait, is Stuckeys still around?