And Goodwill said:They gotta have same birthday to play well together, or one picks on another, or so they said
I wasn't addressing battery lifespan (nowhere in the OP question is that asked) I was only answering the OP question about connecting the battery and the possible 'frying' of something.
And by the way, OTR trucks generally have 4 batteries in parallel and it is very common to replace one if it goes bad which can happen for a variety of reasons.
Others here may argue that an older battery will tend to die sooner, and take the new, good battery with it.
I have seen exactly the opposite in a lifetime of heavy duty use in the trucking industry:
The new GOOD battery EXTENDS the usable life of the older (but still good) batteries it is hooked up to. It shares the loads placed on the entire bank.
Again, this all assumes the batteries are healthy. I did not and would not say that putting a new battery in parallel with a bad, weak, abused, very old, or sulfated battery is a good idea.
The OP question states the first battery was installed at the van build (presumably this past November)...and we can assume it is in good shape and that it is not 'old' by any definition.
If she had said it was 4 years old and had been discharged below 50% every day for the last 2 years, then that is a different situation entirely. I would not parallel a new, fresh, expensive battery with that older one...as the others point out, it's NOT a good idea.