12K in credit card debt still
70K in student loans debt still
... 10+ years. Which I expect burnout will occur long before...maybe I'd be more optimistic
...a sizeable town 100,000-1,000,000 people...cheap and affordable...
...house of cards.. If I can't figure out my next move...
...im in panic mode....
Maybe during the summer I just pick up a 2nd part time job...
The more I seek answers[,] the more confused I become... if I fail completely[,] then I'm walking the streets at night...
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a)
I can see your 'panic mode' limiting your vision.
It happens to me, too.
That is my Lizard Brain, that ancient remnant of my pre-human existence, attempting to protect me by staying in the 'flight' section of the four potentials:
* Fight
* Flight
* Negotiate
* Capitulate.
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b)
Your uni experience (degree?) should be welcome at any campground or resort.
As a host, your spot is cheap or free.
Could this be your '2nd part time job'?
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An aside:
I read your '2nd' as 'tuned', and that gave me quite the chuckle!
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c)
At your 'I could be more optimistic', I wondered about your current level of optimism.
Glancing through your objections, I get the impression your optimism is absent, so gaining some starting optimism would be a great first step for most folk.
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d)
And if you fail partially, you could walk the streets as a Professional Dog-Walker...
... solving two objections simultaneously!
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By this point in The LM Fix For Everything, I get the impression I divide my decisions into bite-size choices:
* 'if I decide to do this, then that happens'
* 'if I decide to postpone deciding, then this happens'.
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Lance22,
I honestly truly believe you are in an enviable position.
You can go any direction you choose.
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In your November 2022 thread...
https://vanlivingforum.com/threads/need-help-selecting-a-city-for-minivan-life.47846/
...you were feeling stagnation.
How are you doing today?