Kayakgirl, as you've seen, when it comes to 12 volt electricity, there are no simple questions or simple answers. Let me give you some general guidelines:
1) A desktop draws too much for your plans, get a laptop.
2) Get as energy efficient laptop as you can.
3) Before you buy it, search Amazon or eBay to be sure you can get a 12 volt charger for it. Don't but it without one.
4) Can a tablet meet your needs for short trips? Or a large phone like a Note 3 or iPhone 6+ work for you?
5) The largest Walmart Marine battery will probably charge your laptop just fine for short trips as long as you have an energy effecient laptop.
6) Keep the receipt and if you wreck the battery on these trips, they will replace it. Plus, its cheap enough it won't break you if they won't.
7) Expect to wreck a few batteries in the beginning. It's part of the learning process and so buy a cheap one with a good warranty.
8) Remember, you can always take the laptop into a Library, Starbucks, or MacDonald's and charge it while you are working! Many WIFI hotspots will let you charge it.
One cool trick is to put all you electric devices into a book-bag and plug them all into one power-strip. When you go into the Library plug the power-strip in and you are charging all of them at once and no one else will know!
9) get a cigarrete lighter voltmeter to plug into the house battery. It will give you a basic idea of its charge.
10) If the battery gets low, once you are stopped you can take it out, set it on the ground up front and
hook it up by jumper cables (you should be carrying those no matter what!) to the starting battery. Run the engine for about 15-30 minutes while you step on the gas so it is above an idle. You'll waste gas but it will put quite a bit of power into the battery.
I predict you will fall in love with it and when you do you should start charging the house battery from the starting battery. Check back with us and we'll tell you how!!!!
You are going to have a great time. And
if there are some problems along the way, one day you will look aback at those as the best memories of all!!
Bob