Momentum is mass times speed. I've never trashed any vehicle. My experience is obviously in different conditions than yours. In my situations, momentum has kept both drive wheels pushing since I was moving. With a normal street vehicle, once stopped in mud or deep sand, when one drive wheel spins without pushing, the other is useless. With a four wheel Jeep Wagoneer, if one side of the wheels spins freely, the other two are useless.
I drove a school bus up a muddy slope sliding sideways but made it with momentum going about 15 mph.
I hit a telephone pole right square in the middle of my 1950 Ford hood with a telephone pole because I had momentum but no steering on ice. It was a little bent but not trashed because I got a whole new front end for $15. That was in 1967.
On that old road grader I tried going up an ice coated hill. Not enough momentum. Slid back down. Fortunately I stopped before I slid into pickup that was following.
But if one has more speed times mass than can be steered or braked, yes, it will trash vehicles.
How did you trash your vehicles? Perhaps the speed damaged suspension or body parts on rocky roads. None of my situations were on rocky roads although I did have to jump the curb to hit the telephone pole.