Calaverasgrande
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My mother before she passed away had a limited income. Maybe close to $900 - $1100 a month.
It drove me and my sister crazy because she would do all these things cheaply, and we would help out by paying for things here and there. Doing the yard work or clearing snow so she didn't have to pay for it. (I hated having to pay $20 roundtrip to go out there shovel snow, eat dinner and go home but what are you gonna do? It's your mom!)
Then after all that effort to live within a budget, she would go on QVC or something similar and order some nonsense shirt she liked or some strange kitchen gadget that didn't really work so great.
At the time it really pissed me off.
But later on I came to realize, she was a woman in her 70s with not a lot to do. After she got sick she couldn't go out drinking with her other old lady friends. Should she just watch TV until she dies?
If those blouses and magic apple peelers brought her some joy or a moment of diversion good. I just wish the money could have come from me and not some credit card company. Don't ever go in debt to a credit card company.
So yeah, live within your budget, but don't spend your life just barely existing. Smell the roses, do something different every week to break things up.
When I was younger and always broke I had a rule, no matter what my bills were, I always went out and ate at a restaurant on pay day.
I may owe $600 to 3 utility companies and the credit card monster, but $8 dollars of this paycheck are going in my stomach first.
It drove me and my sister crazy because she would do all these things cheaply, and we would help out by paying for things here and there. Doing the yard work or clearing snow so she didn't have to pay for it. (I hated having to pay $20 roundtrip to go out there shovel snow, eat dinner and go home but what are you gonna do? It's your mom!)
Then after all that effort to live within a budget, she would go on QVC or something similar and order some nonsense shirt she liked or some strange kitchen gadget that didn't really work so great.
At the time it really pissed me off.
But later on I came to realize, she was a woman in her 70s with not a lot to do. After she got sick she couldn't go out drinking with her other old lady friends. Should she just watch TV until she dies?
If those blouses and magic apple peelers brought her some joy or a moment of diversion good. I just wish the money could have come from me and not some credit card company. Don't ever go in debt to a credit card company.
So yeah, live within your budget, but don't spend your life just barely existing. Smell the roses, do something different every week to break things up.
When I was younger and always broke I had a rule, no matter what my bills were, I always went out and ate at a restaurant on pay day.
I may owe $600 to 3 utility companies and the credit card monster, but $8 dollars of this paycheck are going in my stomach first.
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