twokniveskatie
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Good morning everyone! I woke up many times last night, and read my emails about this topic. This morning my inbox was still full, and having slept on it, my response is different than it would have been last night. I'm giggling. <br /><br />As some of you know, I hate being judged. Add into that mix that I can be one of the most judgmental people around and, well, you can imagine the problems with that!!! It seems that it all depends on what's being judged, and who's doing it. <br /><br />I took offense at some of the comments last night. Ooh boy, did I get stewed. Then I found, tucked away in my emails, a quote from someone named Don Miguel Ruiz...."your point of view is something personal to you. It is no ones truth but your own." how's that for a bit of wisdom when you need a reminder? <br /><br />I had a vision of the next RTR, that wonderful gathering of a fringe group of like-minded folks who celebrate being able to join together without having to justify their lifestyle. I can see the new group on the outskirts of camp, those damn dumpster divers. They are weird, but if they are stealthy enough, they can hang around. An even further fringe group, the really questionable ones, are the unshaven. Not a beard trimmer to be found among them. Nothing stealthy about them. If you are in camp and someone comes in and sits down with a bag over their head, call for Bob, the group founder, to help expell them back to the fringes immediately! They are sure to have facial hair, ungroomed. Beware that it might just be our beloved Bob under that bag, with his glorious beard. Cheri or not, I'd plant a kiss on his hairy cheek, I love him so much the way he is. <br /><br />We are human, and we have our own opinions and truths. We are seeking refuge from a society that judges us and often finds us wanting. I hope we do not drag into our midst many of the ideas and attitudes that we are so desperate to escape. It's easy to do...we learned our culture from the day we were born, and the chains are hard to break. <br /><br />Somehow, though, I hope we can, if not celebrate our differences, at least respect them. We are an amazing bunch of people, each and every one of us. I just love Bob to pieces, for creating this place for us, this soft place to land. <br /><br />Now, back to the dumpsters.....