And my point being, Mortimer, is that we just don’t know.
If a person/her partner loses their job, is struggling to meet high medical expenses, their heat bill has doubled, whatever, the first thing I would not do is sell my car that gets me to work, my kids to school and medical appointments, etc.
We just don’t know what is going on in other peoples lives, is the truth.
I have never forgotten getting food stamps and WIC coupons, and the judgmental looks from the checkout ladies and people behind me in line in the grocery stores…from back in the day when you had paper coupons you tore out of books and presented in exchange for food.
So, try to lead with kindness and compassion, is what I work to do.
That said, I don’t give money to panhandlers, but I do donate monthly to my local food pantry.