I've noticed every time I replace something on my RV that gray butyl tape is always hard, dried out, and cracked. I don't understand why RV manufacturers keep using butyl when there are so many good urethanes available. I'm totally sold on Dicor, easy to work and stays flexible for years. I'd omit the butyl and use just the Dicor to bond the vent to the roof. Seal it up and let it cure by itself overnight then come back and screw it down. You can screw it down right away, but it squeezes out most of the sealant. Dicor over the exterior screw heads and the edges of the vent your finished.
I've used SuperFlex brand but it shrank too much, cured thinner and harder. I've also used a 3m produce in the past (can't remember which number) and was wholly disappointed. It was so thick it wouldn't flow, got stringy if you tried to work it, shrank up and cracked along the seam after one year. It was bear to peel it off so I could Dicor over it. I've peeled Dicor after a couple of years and it was still thick and flexible (nice and chewy), adhered real good but still easy to peel with a putty knife. Dicor is maybe a buck or two more, but IMHO very much worth it. Good stuff...