missmillpl
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Hi everyone, Sorry it has been so long since I've been here, you will understand in a moment. On Dec. 17th of 2012 my sister (whom I haven't spoken to because of her husband) was in a car accident. Well it was a truck, her husband is a big horrible bully. Yes he is the one man who made me hit him after 10 hours of constant harassing me and making fun of the fact that my darling David has gone to live with the angels. So yes I finally lost my temper and punch him right between the eyes, and I knew his 300lb self would knock me out but I did make that 1st punch count. As I fell to the ground I heard him saying I have never been hit so hard by a f-ing woman in my life, then he proceeded to break most of my ribs crack my shoulder bone and damage my kidneys. Yes I hit 1st however I have only hit another person 3 times in my 50 years it does take alot to cause me to loose my temper. As they were leaving I heard Pam my sister begging him not to run over me. The next day my other sister informed Pam that as long as she was with that man she was to have no contact with the rest of the family. This on our part was not a good choice as we have found out many horrible thing he has done to her. The final straw was him and his road rage. He went crazy because someone passed him and intentionally hit the guy causing him to lose control of the vehicle sending them across the medium into the path of a van going 60mph which of course hit on Pam's side. It broke the vehicle in half he went flying out the window over the top of her (how his fat rear end got out a side window of a s-10 we have no clue). The front of the truck was held on by 2 bolts by the time it finally came to rest. The rescue people saw him laying in the middle of the road and didn't even bother to check for anyone else. The 1st they knew of her was when she climbed out of the truck and up a large muddy embankment. She was in trauma ICU for Christmas and got to come home for new years eve but she had most of her ribs broken on of which punctured her lung, of course her lungs collapsed. Her shoulder is broken and she had the blackest Bobbie on a white woman anyone has ever seen (from the seatbelt). She is a cancer survivor and has many complications due to that, She cannot tolerate anesthesia or strong pain meds they cause her lungs to shut down. So most of the time during her recovery she was in excruciating pain and we could only lie to her and tell her that she just had something, mind over matter does work sometimes. When she was finally released she came home with me (oh yes by the way I got to the hospital 2 hours after the accident and never left her side to this day). He has no Idea where we are and it would not be a good idea for him to show up if he finds out. She often feels guilty about not being there to take care of him and has what is called traumatic amnesia. She has recently remembered that he caused the accident on purpose, that is a help in keeping her away from him and we have her in daily therapy. SO please pray for her mentally and physically, and remember me to have the strength to care for her. </span>
