Has anyone tried a dual address situation? Mail address different from physical address?
Me!
^^^People do it all the time but results may vary depending on what state you are in and what you expect to accomplish by doing so.
I can't speak for the OP. What I am expecting to accomplish is:
1. mailing address can be truly permanent, domicile address may change. I expect to still have the same Escapees mailing address in 10 or 20 years. Who knows if I will want to be domiciled in Maryland for that long, or if I'll find some better solution for domicile rather than the "ask a friend" option.
2. Escapees does scanning, they handle packages, they will never be annoyed by too much mail. I want to stay in my friend's good graces and minimize the amount of mail they get on my behalf. And the friend isn't going to do scanning.
In fact, the friend has been getting more mail for me than I would have hoped. Many places seem not to respect the "mailing address" that you give them, and they just send stuff to the residence address anyway. I'm slightly dismayed by this but what can you do. All I can do is just hope that over time I manage to keep the mail they get to a minimum, and that I can be a good friend and make up for any annoyance I might cause.
[Edit: I am aware that the USPS can do "temporary mail forwarding", which is a bit of a misnomer since the idea is you keep renewing it, so that it's effectively permanent for as long as you don't slip up and forget to renew. Now that I've realized how many places send mail to the residence address, I might look into doing this. I understand that you don't want to do "permanent mail forwarding" with the USPS because then the USPS will proactively let people know you've moved, which is what you DON'T want. I may investigate the temporary forwarding option, but I haven't yet. This is all new for me and I'm still getting a handle on it]
[Edit #2: There is confusion with my bank over what my credit card's "billing address zip code" is. The bank tells me one thing over the phone, but the reality when I get gas and I have to enter a zip code into the pump, seems to be completely different. Still figuring this one out.]