Getting rid of dog

[Weight]

august too late for my opinion. find a no kill shelter. Best is a bred specific rescue group. Else you don't wan to know.

 

[JuliaAnne2018]

I'm sorry about the way I reacted, and I do appreciate the insight from those of you who don't insist that one person is right and another person is wrong. However, I also am not going to be sharing much about things going on in my personal life for fear of feeling condemned by people on here if I do. I still don't like the way some people on here respond, and a little bit more courtesy from some people would be nice, but I'm probably not going to be posting any more personal issues on here at least not for a while. I don't want to feel attacked every time I decide to share something that's going on and decided that this may not be the right place to open up to people.

The other thing is, since I never even asked for anyone's advice in the first place, I truly believe the least people can do is "be nice about it" and not come across like they're the only ones with the "right" answer, because as I explained before, there are some issues for which there may be more than one answer.

And some people who maybe have never been in this situation wouldn't even have a clue what it's like to have to decide between putting a dog down and deciding to try to find a home for her. I decided to try to find a home for her and am praying that the person treats her well. That's the best I can do. And after this probably not participate in this thread that I started for at least a while yet because somebody is liable to think they're right and just anger me some more.

But I really am trying to let it go knowing that maybe some people just really don't know how to communicate respectfully with other people, but I could copy and paste parts of the form where it does say "no one is allowed to tell anyone else they are wrong." It was from Bob himself somewhere. I'd have to find it if it's not already deleted.

 

[WanderingCanuck]

Someone pointed out that the original post didn't include any questions or solicit advice. In re-reading it I have to agree - or at least it wasn't obvious. However, this is a forum. It is unreasonable to expect you can post this and not get the kind of advice that you did. If you didn't want to hear various opinions on the subject then why post it at all? Seriously, it seems that the responses from others here get you more worked up than you started off in the first place. A journal or single trusted confidant might be a better choice to share these things with.

...and just to be proactive, I apologize for this not having anything to do with dogs, and for whatever anguish it may cause despite having absolutely no malicious intentions. In fact, I'm already regretting it and haven't yet hit "Post Reply".

 

[ByeBye]

And the advice keeps coming in.

 

[WanderingCanuck]

And the advice keeps coming in.

And getting increasingly more helpful, I see.

 

[cyndi]

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