@ steve <SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); COLOR: rgb(42,42,42)"><FONT color=#0000ff>What would you recommend doing had you the chance to do it over differently.</FONT></SPAN><br><SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); COLOR: rgb(42,42,42)"><FONT color=#000000>Given my husband the divorce he so badly wanted when I was 40 years old and still somewhat good looking, instead of at the age of 53. I'm not making fun. These are hard questions and the answers are dependent on so much, the present economy being the biggest question. Many people do not really know how fast life can change from good to bad, healthy to poor health.</FONT></SPAN><br><SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); COLOR: rgb(42,42,42)"><FONT color=#000000>How many members here have worked hard all their lives only to suffer financial ruin before the magical age of 65? How many do not live to collect at the age of 65 or 62 1/2?</FONT></SPAN><br><SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); COLOR: rgb(42,42,42)"><FONT color=#000000>What I get from looking at these posts, people here seem to be strong. We are in different stages of finding ourselves and most of us will survive what happens.</FONT></SPAN><br><SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); COLOR: rgb(42,42,42)"><FONT color=#000000>Getting rid of debt is a given. </FONT></SPAN><br><SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); COLOR: rgb(42,42,42)"><FONT color=#000000>Steve, every 6 months I think, the SS dept sends out how much you will get at retirement. What is the maximum you could get doing what you do now for money for the next 25 years? </FONT></SPAN><br><SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); COLOR: rgb(42,42,42)"><FONT color=#000000> Is the percentage worth living a fullfilled, <FONT color=#ff00ff>by your standards only</FONT>, life?</FONT></SPAN><br><SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); COLOR: rgb(42,42,42)"><FONT color=#000000>Steve, this last question comes from my heart, like many people, I have lived much of my life doing for and in accordence with others wishes and needs. Not saying you should walk away from loved ones and responsibilities. </FONT></SPAN><br><SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); COLOR: rgb(42,42,42)"><FONT color=#ff00ff><b>Dragonfly</b></FONT></SPAN><br><SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); COLOR: rgb(42,42,42)"><FONT color=#000000></FONT></SPAN> <br>