jeanontheroad
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HeadinWest, what I meant by asking what you saw yourself doing was: How do you see yourself living, day to day?
A good place to start is: How do you like to live, now? You aren't going to suddenly going to morph into a different person because you change your abode. How much space do you need for stuff you want to keep? If you will be working, do you really want to be breaking down your bed every day before you can get ready? Do you make you bed every morning NOW? Do you want to have to trudge to the campground facilities in the morning chill everyday to use the showers and toilet, or do you want to be able to do that in your home?
Do you go out to eat, now, or do you cook? What hobbies and equipment do you need space for? Do you like TV? Books? Internet? You are still going to be who you are when you change your living quarters, so you want to make choices based on you and not someone else.
If you are going to be working, you won't be moving around a lot. You will also not be restricted in ways you might be if you had no money coming in. So, how you prefer to live? DH has to have more living space and stuff than I do, but I need to have more people and access to town amenities than he does. You have to know yourself pretty well because that's who you will be living with.
A good place to start is: How do you like to live, now? You aren't going to suddenly going to morph into a different person because you change your abode. How much space do you need for stuff you want to keep? If you will be working, do you really want to be breaking down your bed every day before you can get ready? Do you make you bed every morning NOW? Do you want to have to trudge to the campground facilities in the morning chill everyday to use the showers and toilet, or do you want to be able to do that in your home?
Do you go out to eat, now, or do you cook? What hobbies and equipment do you need space for? Do you like TV? Books? Internet? You are still going to be who you are when you change your living quarters, so you want to make choices based on you and not someone else.
If you are going to be working, you won't be moving around a lot. You will also not be restricted in ways you might be if you had no money coming in. So, how you prefer to live? DH has to have more living space and stuff than I do, but I need to have more people and access to town amenities than he does. You have to know yourself pretty well because that's who you will be living with.