Bob- & Carolyn-Haters

[Tracy Coyote]

Osiyo!  I've been watching Bob Wells' & Carolyn's videos like mad, because I learn a lot from their different styles.  Can someone explain why guys are threatening & hating on Carolyn, & why this one person, (I can't remember the name), is using Bob's videos to send out negative propaganda about how women are going to end up homeless, etc?  Kind of scary that there are people out there who have these weird ideas, & threaten people.

 

[BradKW]

While it's easy to sit and ascribe motives and diagnose personality or psychological disorders that are common with YouTube haters in general, it's even easier to simply ignore them. Just another pile of poop to step over on the sidewalk of life

 

[DannyB1954]

I think Bob's assessment of the financial condition of lower income earners who no longer work is correct, (not only women, but they seem to be in the majority).

As far as Carolyn, I stopped watching or supporting her videos after she led a rant against another person. Back at the last RTR there was a group of people singing and playing music at a campfire. This upset Bob who chose to camp nearby. Bob was critical of the group in one of his videos. One of the singer/players posted a rebuttal video. Carolyn went off on them. I don't know if it was in one of her own videos, but an internet news website played a soundbite of it.

I didn't see where it was her job to defend Bob, or be as nasty as she was to the person with a different viewpoint. I considered it as showing her true colors. Anyone can pretend to be a nice person, but it becomes harder for them when they are upset. I don't hate her, (or anyone else), and until asked in this thread, I kept my opinions to myself. There are probably people who would prefer to not associate with me for whatever reason. Nobody likes everybody. I have not seen an example of these "haters", But perhaps they take their dislikes to an extreme. I do not endorse bad behavior no matter the justification.

 

[Gary68]

the guy using bob's video is a hate women group thing,dont know about the other,cant make it through her intro

a couple things i have notices is that if you disagree or have an opposing opinion you are immediately labeled troll or hater
and people starting a utube then starting a parion,gofundme and paypal give me money,give me money,will catch a lot of heat and with children going hungry,justifiably so

 

[DannyB1954]

There is only one other channel that I don't watch. You might say the guy is "Fanatical" about expecting others to take care of his problems.

 

[Gary68]

There is only one other channel that I don't watch. You might say the guy is "Fanatical" about expecting others to take care of his problems.

i'm pretty much down to bob's and crook and nanny(love the bottom of utube)
theres to much good stuff on utube to waste it watching someone cook a grilled cheese sandwich

heres what i watched last night

 

[CautionToTheWind]

Screening is the only solution; some people have terrible boundaries.

 

[Ballenxj]

I missed all of that, and I guess I'm glad I did.

 

[TMG51]

There are always people who complain, don't credit them with your attention.

 

[Every Road Leads Home]

I think the way Carolyn responds to all the haters just encourages more people to keep at it. I think ignoring them is the correct approach. I stopped watching her videos because there's not much content in them catered towards learning new tips and tricks and the intro music hurts my brain.

 

[waldenbound]

YouTube has just exploded with channels where people say absolutely nothing. "Hey guys, I'm leaving X campsite." Then show video of a van driving on a dirt road. Who cares? Leave already.

I've narrowed my watching down to a few who provide quality content. I watched one person give instructions on how to make a weed sprayer shower. I went out that afternoon and built mine.

Here's what I would like to see more of from YouTube nomads:

The basics: how to's such as what size propane tank should I get? How do I build a portable shower? How can I rig up a standard tarp for extra shade, or privacy showering? How do I get unstuck if I get in deep sand? Directions to places such as the RTR, that's helpful.

Gear reviews: Is there something new on the market that can add real value to the nomad experience? Electronics, auto/rv, or general camping equipment.

Food/cooking: How can I eat healthy on the road? How much and what kinds of food to onboard when I'm stopped at the only Walmart for the next 200 miles?

Hobbies: Interview people with different hobbies. How can I enjoy astronomy on the road? How can I get started prospecting for gems/gold? Birding basics, wildflower identification. The interviews with another person give a more personable viewing experience.

Here's a good subject, Leave-No-Trace ethics, and being a steward instead of a slob on public lands. Some people nowdays don't know these things.

And every time the subject of mail and driver's license comes up, advocacy. How can nomads start advocating for themselves. Is it time to take that next step?

Just some thoughts for an early Sunday morning.

 

[DrJean]

WHEW! When I first read the subject line I was like rut roh! But ahhh I'm on the "right side" here is this thread anyway. I arrived at the RTR the morning after the night before that music thing night. And I also remember some woman walking quickly through the camp ranting against Bob and how it's" HIS problem, that HE just HATES all music!" What an impression that made for a newbie!

Well, I had just met Bob that first morning, shook his hand and received and acknowledged a very spiritual sense of connection. I hope he got the same vibe from me...

Since it's nearly one of Christians "holiday time" may I politely remind that people hated Him, too...and He is the Son of God. How much more are we expected to be hated by those who are basically evil, without a moral base? We irk them.

I want to share also that it's that type of people that make me very hesitant to connect up with any other group of Van Dwellers because I had a basically good group of RTRers around me and am spoiled!

Thanks Bob.

 

[jimindenver]

Just like TV it is just entertainment or a distraction. When I dislike it, I change the channel.

 

[Queen]

Just like TV it is just entertainment or a distraction. When I dislike it, I change the channel.

It's the unfortunate side of the internet, any complete idiot with a keyboard can (and usually does) loudly proclaim their thoughts.  So, like you, I simply choose not to participate.

 

[Tracy Coyote]

I love all of the topics suggested! Thanks.  I guess I'm weird, but I like Carolyn, even though she doesn't get as technical as Bob.  I can see why men might not want to watch her ongoing, but for me, she seems real, she's funny, & also helpful & inspiring.  Also weirdly, I love her intro, which a couple of you said you hate.  Maybe it's a girl thing!  Anyway, Bob is awesome, & I've learned so much from him already, & feel more prepared because of him.  They are a nice balance.  Guess it comes down to respecting other people's opinions, & I really value what y'all shared.  I'll follow up on the links you provided.  Wado!

 

[Optimistic Paranoid]

And every time the subject of mail and driver's license comes up, advocacy. How can nomads start advocating for themselves. Is it time to take that next step?

People think that mainstream RV groups are for mainstream RV people and not for people living/traveling in vans and cars.

But I will mention that Escapees does a lot of advocacy on behalf of ALL nomads, Federal as well as Texas laws and problems, and they have a sub-forum over in their forums devoted to discussions and information on such things.  You need not be a paying Escapees member to take part in any of their forums.

http://www.rvnetwork.com/index.php?/forum/15-rv-action-items/

 

[closeanuf]

Thanks OP for that link.  They had a topic about Texas vehicle registration That I needed to see.  I had been wondering how to get my pickup registered without coming back to Texas for an inspection and the answer was right there.

 

[bigsallysmom]

I subscribe to both. Sometimes the subject is unappealing to me so I don't watch it. Being a woman, I certainly enjoy a woman's perspective.
Women have complained for years that a lot more crap is posted in their comments section. There are a lot of weak people out there picking upon what they believe is the weaker sex.

 

[DannyB1954]

It occurred to me that there is more than one Carolyn doing videos. I would like to be clear that I was NOT referring to Caravan Carol in my earlier post #3. I do enjoy her videos. If it is her that we are referring to, She was formerly in Law Enforcement. I like LE. Sure there are people in every occupation that shouldn't be there, but as a whole I think they are decent people. Some people may have a resentment against someone in LE and want to paint everyone with the same brush. Having been in a public position she should be used to criticism. Spoiled children, (of all ages), often throw a temper tantrum when they can not do as they please.
The latest outrage against her was killing some fire ants. I live in the South West. Get bit by a fire ant and you will want revenge, or at least you will do what is necessary not to have it happen twice.

 

[DLTooley]

YouTube has just exploded with channels where people say absolutely nothing. "Hey guys, I'm leaving X campsite." Then show video of a van driving on a dirt road. Who cares? Leave already.

I've narrowed my watching down to a few who provide quality content. I watched one person give instructions on how to make a weed sprayer shower. I went out that afternoon and built mine.
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How can nomads start advocating for themselves. Is it time to take that next step?

Gotta link for that weed sprayer shower?  Do you let it heat in the sun?