I would just get the Victron you originally linked, the 100/30, your panel will be well below its limits and the controller will be stay happily cool all the time. Call around your local home solar installers and see if they will sell you one house panel, I was able to with a huge savings, no shipping and they sold the panel cheap as they buy in huge lots. If you really want a crazy nice panel find an LG, they have 365 watt 60 cell panels and 405 watt 72 cell panels, these are much better panels than the Renogy's and put out a lot more power for the size. I personally have these LG's (older versions) 3 x on my RV and 30 x in my backyard, they have performed flawlessly and been thru some crazy hailstorms, and some rough off roading on the rig.
I have 4 Victron controllers and I am very impressed with them, they never get hot even at max capacity, and have a crazy number of programmable options.
LG Panels manufacturers site, Google Lg panels to find local sellers.
You will find for example at the RTR 2 years back, a few cloudy, overcast or rainy days and you will wish you had as much solar as you could get, every day isn't a perfect day and sometimes you get that 1 hour break in the clouds and that is when the most solar you can have really pays off. the worst thing on multiple rainy/overcast days is to have to severely limit your power use when you are stuck inside.