Had to forego trying to solve the crazy alternator problems due to some health issues that hubs has been battling but we are back at it again.
Here's the latest update:
1 - Tested the possibility of system entering "fuel ecomony mode" and forcing alternator to drop to a lower voltage and seeing if, by turning on the headlights, could force back to standard mode and raise the voltage back up. So, went on the parkway, plugged in all the accessories that had been used during the very first test (ie, the 6.7 amp Jackery charger, 3 amp Indel fridge, .5 amp GPS, .5 amp dashcam) and turned on the headlights, that was recommended in the service bulletin to get the RVC system out of fuel economy mode, and drove between 60-65 mph for 35-40 minutes. The voltage while driving never dropped below 13.8. RESULTS: Battery voltage dropped from 12.6 to ~12.24. This was even worse drop than the first test...totally disappointing. The battery again was able to charge up fully and quickly when not plugging anything in. (never, ever have had a problem getting the battery fully charged when nothing plugged in which has made this all more confusing)
2 - It then occurred to me that the total amps I was using at the ciggie ports (~11 amps....remember, I had nothing else in the van turned on when testing, just the stuff plugged into the ciggie ports) was lower than if I had just the A/C and headlights on (~30 amps) so obviously the question of whether the alternator should have been able to handle those 11 amps was "YES, OF COURSE, IT SHOULD HAVE". Duh. So now the worry was whether it was able to handle *any* load whatsoever. So, while on a trip, turned on the A/C to high, headlights, and radio when driving at a steady 55 mph without any stop lights for ~30 minutes. Voltage while driving stayed around 13.9 again. RESULTS: the battery voltage dropped from 12.6 to 12.37!
3 - Found a friend with a clamp meter and a Blue Driver Pro OBD II so was able to finally get some sort of amp output measurement on the alternator. With no van accessories turned on, in idle: 19 amps. With all accessories on (hi beams, heater blower on highest fan setting, 4 way blinkers, radio): 52 amps. With all accessories turned on, Jackery charger and Indel plugged in: 62 amps. These numbers seemed to be exactly what was needed and this was in idle! (in retrospect I'm sorry I didn't get a reading at higher rpms to see if something strange happened) Also, the obd ii showed no codes and he was able to connect to the ECU (or whatever module controlled the alternator regulator) and it seemed to be responding as expected.
I was speaking with one mechanic at a local repair shop about the problem (yet another mechanic who assured me they had a clamp meter to measure amps but when I showed up, only had a little multimeter to measure voltage...errr) who said that their shop does not deal with any aftermarket alternators anymore because of all the problems they cause. From this, maybe this aftermarket alternator is just not communicating well with the van's complicated regulating system?
The next step is now to replace the aftermarket with a new AC Delco original alternator. Hopefully that solves everything. <fingers crossed>
I'm just glad that we were so obsessed with checking battery voltage because we may have very well have killed this battery while driving.