rvpopeye and Buckwilk....thanks! You are both so encouraging and I appreciate that so much! Sending you both big ((((hugs)))
I know that in spite of my fears and nervousness about all this....that nothing out West can be worse than things I have already lived through in my almost 48 years of a very hard life. Even if it is, I will survive it.
I have been homeless, afraid, in real physical danger, flat broke, hungry, had times with 2 small children, alone and not a dime to my name, with no one to help me in this entire world (more than once)....I mean absolutely no one too! ....but I made it every single time and I made it without doing anything illegal or immoral, or causing others harm.
Now, do me a favor and remind me of all this when I actually post that I am on my way to AZ and I'm scared to death LOL.
As for bus/van....I think it's good people post and warn others that some places won't allow them. I would hate for anyone for find out the hard way. I have lived in old RV's before and been turned away from parks before (Florida is really bad about the 10 year rule) and one of the reasons I plan to van dwell out West is because I hate things like that! I own a house here in TN and have zero freedom! I can't have chickens, can't work on my house without approval and permits, can't even let my son live in RV on the property that I own because it's against zoning laws here and on and on of things I cannot do on my own property! I don't own anything if I am not free in my opinion. No thanks! I don't want a job that won't let me have my bus or van. May as well keep my house if someone dictates how I must live.
I will find a job. I can do most anything work wise and I am a survivor.
"Judging from what you have posted here, I would have had no qualms about hiring you. You would be an exceptional host and probably a even better Ops. Manager. Your outlook is positive, that is so important in this day of rampant negativity and can't be done mentality. Your excitement, enthusiasm, desire for knowledge is contagious. Your personality, what we see so far, is perfect for this life."
Thank you for that Buckwilk. You are such an encourager to everyone on here. I really needed that today. I have really lost myself the past few years. I used to be fearless and happy. I don't know who or what I am anymore, certainly not fearless or happy, but I know I am going to get "me" back soon. Somehow.
Sorry for the long post