bluegoatwoods
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We're a recently retired couple. Me, late 50s. And my wife is in her early 50s. We have a home that's modest, but likable to us. One bonus is that it's among some gorgeous trees and rather wooded ground with plenty of elevation changes and some pretty cool wildlife. One could say we live in the woods. But we're not alone. There are plenty of houses around us. Urban conveniences within easy reach. It's just a little more crowded than I'd really like. But pleasant.
We still have one child at home. But she's a grown up young lady who is capable of living on her own and has done so before. Her long term plan is to set herself up someplace a bit more cosmopolitan than this (one coast or the other) in a few years. She's living at home to build up her resources and won't stay forever.
I made my living on the road for at least half of my career. My wife always envied me my ability to get out and look over a good chunk of this nation. I always told her, "It has ups and downs, believe me". Still, on balance, I call it more good than bad.
I took the family travelling with me a couple of times. Once it was for two solid months in the summer. And I'll give my family some credit; they handled two months straight tent camping, plus multiple setups and tear-downs, quite well. There are even a few amusing stories I could tell about their mishaps and adventures. But I'm starting to ramble off topic. In a nutshell, it was great for the family. The only downside is that they were something like a weight around my own neck and making money was slowed down badly enough that that time was not profitable. That summer cost me more than it earned.
If you go back twenty years and more now, then you'd have found us doing some recreational camping. Even fairly often. But you can also picture the typical situation; with small children we had no money for good equipment. We managed on cheap tents from the Beast of Bentonville. We probably bought a few cheap sleeping bags. Certainly some cheap air mattresses. A few single burner camp stoves that used disposable propane tanks. The rest of our equipment was cooking gear and such that we used at home.
Even that was plenty enjoyable. But keeping up a home and making a living were so exhausting that we let camping go. We were lacking the time and strength. The kids were getting older and it was no longer a thrill for them. And there is something a bit daunting about it when you're using equipment that might turn into an awful mess in bad weather. Heck, I've got a few amusing stories in that vein, too. But....once again....off topic.
Along the way I got some experience with living out of a truck when on the road. After I got sick of Super 8s and Days Inns I built a little bunk in the 'king cab' space of my pickup truck. It was cramped and crowded. But I still loved it and never missed those motels.
The last ten years of my career did not involve travel. So we've been pretty stationary during this time. I've even been pretty reluctant and uncooperative about travel during this time. I'd had enough.
But it's different now. I'm more willing to travel if I can do it more leisurely than I was able to until now.
But it's not quite that easy. Our house still needs looking after. In fact, there's more for me to do now since I actually do have some time to do it.
So I had a talk with my wife. We agreed that we'd rather stay here as long as life here is quiet and not stressful. That would mean little travelling, as your home really does require quite a bit of attention.
But we can't really even be sure that the quiet life we're enjoying now is guaranteed to continue. We have two older children who live quite close. They've been less successful about providing their own living. They are on thin ice right now and could be destitute at any time. I'll give them a home if needed here. But I couldn't stand to live with them. I plan on leaving this house to them anyway. The only question is when.
Plus our community over the last 40 or 50 years was built up to 'upper blue collar' standards on good union jobs. Those are gone now. What's going to become of this community? Will some of these homes around here start becoming meth houses and such? That's already a bit of a problem in the county seat not far away. And the commercial sector here has been shrinking. The future here is not certain.
So we agreed that it's time to prepare just in case things 'go south' on us. We want to be ready to pull up stakes and be gone in almost a moment's notice. I suppose my kids will be pleasantly surprised to find that they suddenly have my house, the one they grew up in, plus those belongings of ours which they'd like to keep. It'll probably be quite a happy day for them. But it'll be up to them to keep it and maintain it. I won't be able to afford to subsidize their living.
But, anyway.......we could just rent an apartment and downsize. But getting one in a place that we'd actully like will cost more than I'd want to pay.
So we're preparing for the day, which could even come abruptly, that we go full-time on the road, RVing, van dwelling, something like that. I can have the basic equipment......very, very basic......immediately. The plan that's hatching will have me a bit better prepared when spring comes. And that should be plenty since I really don't expect to hit the road in a few weeks or a month or anything like that.
We're going to start with equipment for tent camping. I've got my Amazon shopping cart filled with most of the needed things. I might order them then shop for the rest or I might put everything into one order. It doesn't matter. Unless something goes really, really wrong we don't have to be ready in a week.
The first item of business will be a good tent. I'm considering these:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00NOA1X3...colid=H3F0ECURDPZC&psc=0&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00TFY8Z5...colid=H3F0ECURDPZC&psc=0&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it
Something to sleep on:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00AU6AVL...colid=H3F0ECURDPZC&psc=0&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it
Cooking:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B079KXVN6J/ref=ox_sc_act_title_3?smid=A3A0ODE1PD3YHA&psc=1
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0009PURJA/ref=ox_sc_act_title_2?smid=ATVPDKIKX0DER&psc=1
plus some baking sheets and pans, pizza stone and so on for the oven
If we needed to go right away, then we could do it in my pickup truck. But it would be better to do it in my wife's car. A later model Chevy Impala. So that means we'd need a trailer.
The truck might seem like the better choice. But it's a standard cab and we'll have a good sized dog with us. Do-able, but only barely. And not desirable.
There's more to my plans. But maybe this post is getting long enough. I suppose I'll go ahead and post it and come back with more plans and info later.
We still have one child at home. But she's a grown up young lady who is capable of living on her own and has done so before. Her long term plan is to set herself up someplace a bit more cosmopolitan than this (one coast or the other) in a few years. She's living at home to build up her resources and won't stay forever.
I made my living on the road for at least half of my career. My wife always envied me my ability to get out and look over a good chunk of this nation. I always told her, "It has ups and downs, believe me". Still, on balance, I call it more good than bad.
I took the family travelling with me a couple of times. Once it was for two solid months in the summer. And I'll give my family some credit; they handled two months straight tent camping, plus multiple setups and tear-downs, quite well. There are even a few amusing stories I could tell about their mishaps and adventures. But I'm starting to ramble off topic. In a nutshell, it was great for the family. The only downside is that they were something like a weight around my own neck and making money was slowed down badly enough that that time was not profitable. That summer cost me more than it earned.
If you go back twenty years and more now, then you'd have found us doing some recreational camping. Even fairly often. But you can also picture the typical situation; with small children we had no money for good equipment. We managed on cheap tents from the Beast of Bentonville. We probably bought a few cheap sleeping bags. Certainly some cheap air mattresses. A few single burner camp stoves that used disposable propane tanks. The rest of our equipment was cooking gear and such that we used at home.
Even that was plenty enjoyable. But keeping up a home and making a living were so exhausting that we let camping go. We were lacking the time and strength. The kids were getting older and it was no longer a thrill for them. And there is something a bit daunting about it when you're using equipment that might turn into an awful mess in bad weather. Heck, I've got a few amusing stories in that vein, too. But....once again....off topic.
Along the way I got some experience with living out of a truck when on the road. After I got sick of Super 8s and Days Inns I built a little bunk in the 'king cab' space of my pickup truck. It was cramped and crowded. But I still loved it and never missed those motels.
The last ten years of my career did not involve travel. So we've been pretty stationary during this time. I've even been pretty reluctant and uncooperative about travel during this time. I'd had enough.
But it's different now. I'm more willing to travel if I can do it more leisurely than I was able to until now.
But it's not quite that easy. Our house still needs looking after. In fact, there's more for me to do now since I actually do have some time to do it.
So I had a talk with my wife. We agreed that we'd rather stay here as long as life here is quiet and not stressful. That would mean little travelling, as your home really does require quite a bit of attention.
But we can't really even be sure that the quiet life we're enjoying now is guaranteed to continue. We have two older children who live quite close. They've been less successful about providing their own living. They are on thin ice right now and could be destitute at any time. I'll give them a home if needed here. But I couldn't stand to live with them. I plan on leaving this house to them anyway. The only question is when.
Plus our community over the last 40 or 50 years was built up to 'upper blue collar' standards on good union jobs. Those are gone now. What's going to become of this community? Will some of these homes around here start becoming meth houses and such? That's already a bit of a problem in the county seat not far away. And the commercial sector here has been shrinking. The future here is not certain.
So we agreed that it's time to prepare just in case things 'go south' on us. We want to be ready to pull up stakes and be gone in almost a moment's notice. I suppose my kids will be pleasantly surprised to find that they suddenly have my house, the one they grew up in, plus those belongings of ours which they'd like to keep. It'll probably be quite a happy day for them. But it'll be up to them to keep it and maintain it. I won't be able to afford to subsidize their living.
But, anyway.......we could just rent an apartment and downsize. But getting one in a place that we'd actully like will cost more than I'd want to pay.
So we're preparing for the day, which could even come abruptly, that we go full-time on the road, RVing, van dwelling, something like that. I can have the basic equipment......very, very basic......immediately. The plan that's hatching will have me a bit better prepared when spring comes. And that should be plenty since I really don't expect to hit the road in a few weeks or a month or anything like that.
We're going to start with equipment for tent camping. I've got my Amazon shopping cart filled with most of the needed things. I might order them then shop for the rest or I might put everything into one order. It doesn't matter. Unless something goes really, really wrong we don't have to be ready in a week.
The first item of business will be a good tent. I'm considering these:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00NOA1X3...colid=H3F0ECURDPZC&psc=0&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00TFY8Z5...colid=H3F0ECURDPZC&psc=0&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it
Something to sleep on:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00AU6AVL...colid=H3F0ECURDPZC&psc=0&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it
Cooking:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B079KXVN6J/ref=ox_sc_act_title_3?smid=A3A0ODE1PD3YHA&psc=1
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0009PURJA/ref=ox_sc_act_title_2?smid=ATVPDKIKX0DER&psc=1
plus some baking sheets and pans, pizza stone and so on for the oven
If we needed to go right away, then we could do it in my pickup truck. But it would be better to do it in my wife's car. A later model Chevy Impala. So that means we'd need a trailer.
The truck might seem like the better choice. But it's a standard cab and we'll have a good sized dog with us. Do-able, but only barely. And not desirable.
There's more to my plans. But maybe this post is getting long enough. I suppose I'll go ahead and post it and come back with more plans and info later.