Grim,
Here's my own story. I was watching the YouTube documentary, "Without Bound," which features Bob and a few other vandwellers sharing their stories. My wife was watching with me. ( I should say at this point that we had already started discussing retirement in an RV, but were in the early stages.) My wife said something about "they're crazy," to which I replied, "Hon, these are the first people in many many years that have made SENSE to me!" It was at this moment that I realized how far apart my wife's plans were from my own.
That was about 6 months ago. Well, now I'm working on my cargo trailer conversion project, and my wife is helping make decisions on the planning details. We have both compromised a bit and are a little closer in our goals. We have several years to go before retirement, so I expect in that time we will come closer still, one way or another. But in the meantime we still have to explain this CT build to family, friends, coworkers, etc. Some get it, some don't. Just like I've always owned a home and couldn't see renting an apartment, others will never see why someone would want to live in a vehicle. It takes all kinds to make the world go round. And that's why forums like this, and the RTR and other gatherings, exist, so that like-minded people can find each other.
And, when the economy collapses (or the zombies rise), we will all be proven right in the end LOL.