One of my most trusted mentors, a real old-timer, once shared this sage wisdom with me at a time I was highly frustrated and chasing a problem, "All you need to be is smarter than what you're working on. Mechanical objects are made from metal, and metal is made from refined dirt. So all you need to be is smarter than dirt..."
You will just need to visualize the base of the plug with a mirror or use your cellphone up close to take a picture so you can see what's going on in the recess. There has to be some reason the socket isn't getting purchase. Basically you've got a six-sided peg with a six-sided hole, everything should fit. The problem will be obvious once you visualize it... Did the silicone boot tear, could a piece still be on the porcelain or wedged down in there? Proper size socket? There could be other debris like B and C suggested. Blast some compressed air in there and see if that clears it.
Even without that plug changed, the engine should still start and run on the other 7 cylinders. What the others are saying is essentially you're doing maintenance before tackling the root problem.
As for sticking fuel pumps... Sticking is how the pump tells you it's done, used up, time to change it. If that were the case, I wouldn't delay a minute longer... if a mallet works to get it started, take it straight to the shop to get it changed out. I'd suggest changing it if you find metal fleck in the filter even before driveability symptoms present. Of course, the alternative is to wait and change it after you stall somewhere inconvenient, or get stranded, and then have it towed to the shop.