Another member mentioned how a person looks and how the van looks is important. I'm 68 and have van-camped a lot over the years. For the past 3+ years I have full-timed out of my Chevy Cargo Van. I have only been questioned by police/security three times. Once I told them I was ill and waiting for the nearby pharmacy to open so I could pick up a prescription (true). They asked if they should call 911 for me. I told them I would be fine and they assured me as they made their rounds they would check to make sure no one was bothering me. Second time was in a Wal-Mart near a military base. They said W-M allowed parking but the city did not. They told me I could stay were I was the rest of the night. The time I was bothered the most was at a 24-hr pancake house. I made the mistake of pulling into a dark area behind the restaurant. Turned out it was an employee parking lot and an employee coming to work saw me pull in but not get out of the van. She was afraid to get out and go in the building so called the manager. Keep in mind, that's what they are trained to do... be aware of their surroundings and be safe.<br><br> Manager came out and talked to me and told me to move around the front under one of the lights and that the police were called and I should wait for them. Police ran my ID, asked what was up... and I was near my son's house but told them I arrived too late and didn't want to wake them. Half true... I was near their house. Told them I was too sleepy to drive somewhere else. They told me I could stay there but stay under the lights.<br><br>If you are going for the stealth factor, you have to look conservative (both the person and the van). I try to keep from drawing any attention to myself or my van. I leave nothing in view from the front in the cab area. I don't even use the window shades to block the side or front windows if I am in a busy place, it just looks like a parked work van... nothing in the front. If sun shades are on the front during the day to keep sun out of vehicle... that looks normal. If they are up at night, it looks like someone is inside. <br><br>Age has a lot to do with things too... it's sad to say. An old lady of 68 is not going to draw attention to herself (except if she has very short hair and goes into the ladies room and is dressed kinda man-like... then sometimes other women will say something... happened this morning - I assured them I was WOMAN and asked if they need more proof??? I was in a rush (trust me) and was fully prepared to pull my shirt up. They could not apologize enough.<img class="emoticon bbc_img" src="/images/boards/smilies/eek.gif">) ... anyway, I won't draw the attention that a young slim woman might, or someone dressed very girl-like. Shouldn't be that way... but it is. And as Bri said... as an older guy, he doesn't raise much suspect either. There are stereotypes in this world... that's just the fact of the matter. To be stealthy, you have to know how to look like you fit in... look conservative. Heck, at my brother's gated community in Vegas, I can't even park my van on his street at night... it has to be in his driveway. <br><br>NEVER park in the rich neighborhoods. NEVER park in employee parking areas at overnight stores/restaurants.<br><br>Oh, one more suggestion, in the situation were you got fries and climbed into the back to eat them. ALWAYS get in the drivers' seat and sit there awhile, eat or read there, take time to study that area. Then if you want to stay overnight, you can decide the best spot to move to. At 24 hr stores, I go in, buy something, sit in the drivers seat awhile, eat, read, etc., and then move to the back if I want to use the computer or sleep. If you pull up close to the doors, you will draw less attention to yourself than if you try to go hide someplace.<br><br>A couple other lines I might have to use sometime (like at WalMarts or large Grocery stores):<br><br>I am waiting for a prescription to come in... it should be here tomorrow. I need it.<br><br>I am almost out of gas and am waiting for a wire transfer so I can buy more gas and be on my way.<br><br>I feel very safe out here and most of the time "invisible."<br><br>