I've seen this discussed before. A propane "Tank" is a permanently mounted unit, such as on an RV. A propane "Cylinder" is what you use for a BBQ grill, and what you swap out at Kroger. Tanks have no re-inspection required by date. A cylinder must be re-inspected (hydro-tested) at certain intervals, usually 10 years. A Tank is inspected at every fill, by the filling guy, for excessive rust and/or pitting, bad valves or bleeders, and whether or not the mounting hardware is good. If the filling guy sees a problem, he can refuse to fill the tank, but he can't refuse to fill a "tank" on grounds of age. More than a few filling stations have been cited for refusing to fill a tank when there was no legal reason to do so. It ain't cheap.
Replacement tanks are available, and they aren't as expensive as you would think. Or at least as I would have thought.
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