I don't connect if I don't want to because I don't feel a need to be connected 24/7 and never did. Phone co's want you to believe you must be connected and be reliant on devices. When out in field, I might go 3 months or more with no connection and I like it that way. If you don't do ham radio, then there is FRS/GMRS radio for emergencies & for contacts.
You participate in an online message board, and, by your tag line, you go to RTRs. You connect when you want to connect and don't when you don't, just like everyone else. :-/