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[wagoneer]

I posted in the girls room, because I identify emotionally with the female side as well as the male side. Some of you will not understand this,some of you will. That said my hugs are getting far and few. I need an occasional hug. just venting

 

[Wild_E]

Don't bother me where you post and it doesn't bother me about that other stuff either. You need to come visit my dog, she loves to hug, head hugs, big body hugs, roll on by lean on you hugs, get in your face while your waking up, or just before you wake up hugs!<br>She hugs women, kids, some men.&nbsp;<br><br>Then there is the french kissing, I kid you not as I have been on the receiving&nbsp;end a few times and watched her do it lots to others!&nbsp;<br><br><img rel="lightbox" src="http://wildernessreturn.files.wordpress.com/2013/04/barntextures-123b.jpg?w=400&amp;h=167" class="bbc_img"><br><br>O and she loves to sunbath as well, get her belly rubbed, brings you her baby toy as well as sticks (2x4 and 4x4 up to 6" long! ) She is a big old hug me monster, so here she is for your smile.

 

[wagoneer]

thanx

 

[kidiekat]

Hey, here's a hug from luci and myself.&nbsp; Hang in.&nbsp; <br>I am almost on the road...&nbsp; Just a little more to do and I could be driving past you. lol <br>SO YA BETTER WAVE...&nbsp; Did ya hear that?&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; lol&nbsp; Almost there....<br><br>HUGS

 

[wagoneer]

Good for you two excitement ahead onward away that sounds soo cool. My new motto "one day at a time"... If we should meet up it would be great.

 

[twokniveskatie]

My big family includes various racial and ethnic folks, some fluid gender and trans gender, gay, hetero, lesbian and we are fairly well represented on various mental health fronts one of the younger members is doing life without parole for murder. We are not all biologically related, but have forged an amazing close knit family from people society would often reject outright. Our Misfit Island we all have one thing in common....huge hearts and a willingness to provide sanctuary to the least of these.

I like to think that that kind of sanctuary extends to this virtual family. I really do love you all, and hope anyone can find a safe place to land here.

Wagoneer, my respect for you has increased more than you can know. Huge hugs to you. I admire you for being yourself, and putting yourself out there. You are welcome in my camp anytime.

 

[user 423]

Since I have certain issues that I feel most others wouldn't understand, I try my hardest to understand all other folks. There's an amazing variety in humans but we're all more alike than we are different.

 

[Unchained]

Just popping by with a (((HUG))) for Wagoneer! <img src="/images/boards/smilies/biggrin.gif" class="emoticon bbc_img" title="Big Grin - ">

 

[wagoneer]

My spirits have been lifted, thank you all for the support. Palace theater 1970's with the band we worked with the great disco star "sylvester"

 

[dragonflyinthesky]

Hugs from me. I don't care how you swim as long as you shine.<br><strong><span style="color: #ff00ff;">Dragonfly</span></strong>

 

[peacetara]

hugs too!<br><br>I (personally) would say forum wise, since you don't currently identify and live as female, you probably shouldn't spend a lot of time in the girl's room. &nbsp;I think if you ever decided to live and identify as female, then I personally wouldn't have any issue with you in the girl's room.<br>&nbsp;--- This is me as a person saying this, I am not trying to set policy as a moderator.<br><br>In my experience around female/women only spaces and how 'acceptance' works, if you have 'Female' on your drivers license/ID, then you are female in regards to female/women only spaces. &nbsp;There are of course exceptions, the most famous probably being the Michigan's Womyn Festival, that only accepts Womyn born as Womyn. Yes they use that spelling as far as I can tell, &nbsp;which makes little sense to anyone I know.<br><br>That said, if you need/want support around your (using your words)&nbsp;<span style="line-height: 20px; text-align: left;">identity emotionally with the female side as well as the male side, I'm willing to talk via private message. Also, there are tons of gender fluid and trans* safe spaces all over the Internet and in real life.<br><br></span>Again, this is ME as a person saying all this, I am not trying to set policy as a moderator.<br><br>Also, I really love&nbsp;<strong style="line-height: 20px; text-align: left;"><span style="color: #ff00ff;">Dragonfly's</span></strong><span style="color: #ff00ff;">&nbsp;</span><span style="color: #000000;">message!</span><br><br>With Love,<br>Tara

 

[wagoneer]

I am fortunate not to have identity issues, and being secure in my male role it does have certain drawbacks as far as emotional displays. I cried realizing I was not alone and the responses offered. You know those tines when all seems bleak sad and confused. I was in a sorry state of mind but the storm clouds seem to slowly pass and a little bit of sun puts a smile back on your face. My oldest son is an emotional anchor for me we hug and talk. Thank you all for your support.

 

[Patrick46]

Hey.....I've got hugs for ya too brother!!! (ta hell with that machismo shit!!)<BR><BR>We've ALL had times where it just seemed like we were trapped by life, and had noone to reach out to...you're <EM><STRONG>NOT</STRONG></EM> alone. It does seem kinda odd to me that I sometimes hafta turn to my internet friends (you'z guys), just to find someone who can identify with what I'm dealing with. I can't say I've got tons of friends in my area who identify with my desire to live and travel out on the road........but I do HERE!!<BR><BR>So Thank<EM><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: medium"><STRONG>YOU</STRONG></SPAN></EM> Wagoneer.<BR><BR>and even if it's only on the web, I'm glad I can always click in here, and know I'll have like-minded friends waiting for me. <IMG class="emoticon bbc_img" title="Thumb - :thumb:" src="/images/boards/smilies/thumb.gif"><BR><BR>Have a great week!!!