+1 on no welded diff. That's bad news for almost any kind of vehicle.
Tires are more important than drivetrain mods. If you're routinely going places where you get stuck, upgrade to AT (all-terrain) tires. I met somebody dwelling in a 2wd Toyota who had normal car tires on the front but something like 31" MT (mud-terrain; the loud huge knobby kind) in the back. They had no trouble making it up rather steep muddy roads.
Yes, a come-along is cheap, light, small, and can sometimes save things that are expensive, heavy, and large (like your van with you and all your stuff).
My Kurbmaster's a P400 on a medium-duty chassis, not an Econoline or F250, so anything I do is going to involve fab work anyway.
Regarding a locker for your Dodge... I don't actually know, but I bet the axle in yours is shared with Ram trucks and would take the same diff upgrades.
For reasonably balanced (front-to-rear, so not empty pickup trucks nor fully loaded commercial trucks) four-wheel vehicles on low-traction surfaces, the hierarchy goes something like: 2wd open < 2wd limited-slip < 2wd locked < 4wd with limited-slip center diff < 4wd with locked center diff < 4wd with locked center and rear < 4wd with locked center, rear, and front diffs. Other than tires and chains, the only way up from there is pod or full tracks, and by now we've digressed...