I offer a 3 step method to attack your problem. Steps one and two get you to not having a dead battery by disconnecting. Step 3 gets you to a better fix.
Step one:
Get a stick like 1x2 or broomstick that is long enough, maybe 5 feet. You can put the stick between the ground and the front edge of the hood. That way you can push it up a bit and let the stick hold it. Then you can change your position and move it up some more. This way you don't lift it up with one hand while you engage the prop rod with the other hand.
That might work for me. I can give it a try.
Step two:
Harbor Freight is often derided here. They have a product that might meet your need. It is a battery disconnect switch. Get two, one for each battery.
http://www.harborfreight.com/battery-disconnect-switch-97853.html
If the marine battery has threaded studs for connection then this might be better.
http://www.harborfreight.com/heavy-duty-battery-cutoff-switch-66789.html
Harbor Freight is actually on my list to go to. I'll add these items to my list to check out.
Any auto mechanic should be able to install them and then show you how to use them.
A potential problem is that the marine battery is under the van, and I have no idea where, or of the ease of availability.
I have a recommendation for a different mechanic. I'll look into that on Monday.
Step three:
Again, often derided Harbor Freight has a cheap meter, $6. Sometimes they are free with a coupon. Amazon sells similar meters at similar prices.
http://www.harborfreight.com/7-function-digital-multimeter-90899.html
I'll have to watch for HF ads. I usually toss junk mail without looking at it.
If money is not a problem Amazon sells a clamp on amp meter for $35. Make sure that what you get can measure DC current. AC only is cheaper but your batteries are DC. For $35 it is worth it. Think of it as only $29 more than $6. See below for note 1 "man math."
https://www.amazon.com/Signstek-UT210E-Handheld-Resistance-Capacitance/dp/B00V9XAT4Y
With the meter you can measure both battery voltages. If they are identical, start the engine. If they stay identical your batteries are tied together and some kind of an isolation solution needs to be addressed.
With everything turned off and the the engine off and both batteries disconnected set the meter to the 10 amp current scale and measure the current that passes when you measure across the open battery disconnect switches. With the clamp meter connect each battery, one at a time, and clamp on to either battery cable to measure the current.
Report those current readings back to this forum and there will be help.
I appreciate your guidance. I will try to understand all this, and look into these items.
A major problem for me is electricity: I unplug the lamp and move the cord away from the wall before changing a light bulb :huh: I'll get a trickle charger. I'll study all the responses to better understand. There's things I need better understanding on. I do have a question. WalkaboutTed said, in post 6 "if you just cut off the deep cycle battery with no charging at all, you'll kill it with neglect." So I ask about the wisdom of cutting the marine battery away from the van battery. Just trying to understand.
Note 1: Man math - the tool is free. If you paid someone to do the job it would cost you more than the tool. Since you saved that much money, the tool is free. That's why men have tools. They are free.
Note 2: Tuition can be expensive. If you find and pay a professional to do the job and you watch, what you paid for got the job done and got you the training. The price paid the tuition.