Anyone know their New Year's Resolutions yet?

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I started mine a few months ago and I'm going to continue it through the new year.  It's been on my mind for years and i've finally actively been working towards it.  

Mine is to try and buy whatever I'm looking for "Made in the USA".  Seeking out small family owned companies when possible.  As well as shopping at small local family stores even if what i'm buying is made in China, I can at least support the local family.  Not the tax evading corporations and multi million dollar salaried CEO.  

I bought about 18k in materials remodeling my house these last two months and normally I would have spent it all at Home Depot and Lowes.  Only $3k was spent at Lowes for Cabinets because they fit my budget and they were in stock.  The rest was spent at locally owned supply houses.....one for drywall, one for electric, one for plumbing and the local hardware store/lumber yard, who now greet me by name when I go in there, which is a lot more satisfying than walking into Home Depot.  They also recommended me a few sub contractors who did excellent work.  I consider the little bit extra money to be money well spent.  Being new in town I made some new connections and lasting friendships.    

Next week i'm taking an hour road trip north to Conway, NH to buy my wide plank pine flooring from a small lumberyard that specializes in making it in house from trees cut on their own land.  They assure me that it's 2x as good a quality as Home Depots and it's actually a tiny bit cheaper! Going to be a great scenic ride too.

One of my greatest pleasures traveling is visiting all the small local places across the country.  Decade after decade cooperate America is making more and more of the country look the exact same.  Strip malls coast to coast have the exact same stores, gas stations, fast food.  I travel for a change of scenery, not to see more of the same!  It's kind of sad to think of all the mom and pop shops that folded along the way.  

That's my long winded New Year's Resolution.  What's yours? 

-Matt-
 
My last New Years Resolution was to never make another New Years Resolution. That was thirty-four years ago when I was eight years old. I have never liked the notion of waiting for a special occasion to make changes in my life. If I see a need, why should I wait?

I understand the symbolism of the New Year being a time for a fresh start. I just don't happen to agree with the idea.
 
We are kind of on the same page.  I make no promises to myself that are unreasonable.  If I need a lifestyle change, I just do it.  

What else is there?  You can only change yourself.  

Buying American is something I have always tried to do.  Service is always worth a lot.
 
Not specifically a New Year's resolution, but something I have to do in my final year in my home.

I need to quit buying stuff! I kept think, "I'm taking this, I'm taking that." Well, sorry to say, there's no room for all of that!
I just need to keep necessities around for work, but really need to do some hard purging, so by next time this year, my place should be practically empty.
Oh, I need to order some spare drain plugs for the Yeti. See what I mean?
 
waldenbound said:
Not specifically a New Year's resolution, but something I have to do in my final year in my home.

I need to quit buying stuff! I kept think, "I'm taking this, I'm taking that." Well, sorry to say, there's no room for all of that!
I just need to keep necessities around for work, but really need to do some hard purging, so by next time this year, my place should be practically empty.

Oh, I need to order some spare drain plugs for the Yeti. See what I mean?

Do the Yeti's have a problem with their drain plugs. Check the reviews and see.

If not, don't add one more thing to what you have to have packed in a small space. I know it's only a couple of small drain plugs but it's symbolic of the need to 'quit buying stuff'.

When the drain plug went in my el cheapo cooler I simply put the ice block in a shoe box plastic container that I normally used for produce. It contained the water as long as I didn't forget to empty it. The box itself was re-purposed from when I lived in a S&B and stored small stuff in it on the top shelf in the closet.... :D

Oh, and to answer the original question and keep the thread on track, I don't make New Years resolutions anymore. I'm with the others who believe that any time of the year is a good time.
 
Finding out how you can 'downsize' a yard to make it low to no maintenance
Hey Gsfish, mebbe you could help with that? :D
 
Mine is to completely change my life on 1/1/17. Leave my home, business and life long partner for a trailer, retirement and solitude. I might even toss in the quit smoking thing too, who knows. :)
 
After striving so diligently to walk a path of peace and kindness, I decided to re-arm myself very recently. I find these two things very much at odds, so my foreseeable future will be spent trying to reconcile the two. More meditation to balance out the range time, just trying to see if I can make it all work.
 
Queen said:
After striving so diligently to walk a path of peace and kindness, I decided to re-arm myself very recently.  I find these two things very much at odds, so my foreseeable future will be spent trying to reconcile the two.  More meditation to balance out the range time, just trying to see if I can make it all work.

You know the wolves, sheep, and sheepdog analogy, right?

http://mwkworks.com/onsheepwolvesandsheepdogs.html
 
I do.  I want to be a sheep, but know too much.
 
Why do people equate BEING ARMED with NOT wanting peace?
I have heard so many anti gun folks say that people who carry just want trouble
BALONEY!
most people I know who carry do so out of a desire for safety
How is getting hurt when you could prevent same 'peaceful?"
Does getting hurt make you somehow morally superior to the person who didn't, because they were prepared?
the purpose of YOUR arms, I am quite sure, is the same as the purpose of MY arms, not to be violent, but to STOP violence, at least violence directed at me and mine
That a pretty peaceful desire, IMO
 
ArtW said:
Why do people equate BEING ARMED with NOT wanting peace?
I have heard so many anti gun folks say that people who carry just want trouble

If that were true, I must be the most incompetent gun owner in the world.  I'm 66 and I got my New York State Carry Permit when I was 22.  44 years of carrying, including 6 years of carrying for a living as an armored car guard, and I still haven't shot anybody!

We've started to drift off topic, but then, what's new?
 
Hopefully Cyndi will pop in and split this out so we don't continue to disrupt this thread.

Art, my hope was to be able to meet violence with kindness and love, not equal (however righteous) violence; but I find I am not that evolved yet.
 
Optimistic Paranoid said:
If that were true, I must be the most incompetent gun owner in the world.  I'm 66 and I got my New York State Carry Permit when I was 22.  44 years of carrying, including 6 years of carrying for a living as an armored car guard, and I still haven't shot anybody!

We've started to drift off topic, but then, what's new?

I just look at it as another insurance.  Most people pay for homeowner's insurance their entire life and never use it.  Auto too.  Of the fire extinguisher in your car/home.  Just another tool to be prepared.
 
If I find something I need to change about myself I surely don't wait til New Years' to do it!

(PS Law enforcement officers were first called "PEACE officers" and they all carried.)
 
I'm trying to respect the moderators request and not reply to each new comment on my resolution. So PLEASE, do me the courtesy of dropping it, or start a new thread and I will be happy to address it there.

Sorry for messing up your thread, ERLH.
 
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